hi dear moms n mtb' s soon,
i m currently in my 39th week n feel tht i will deliver soon ..since 2 days really getting onto my nerves ..i feel i cant take it any more ..my blood pressure has risen n my feet r tremendously swollen ...weight 2kgs decrease ..but still feel heavy ..feet aches really bad ..yeasterday had apptnt n DR says will check bp tommmorrow otherwise will induce n will not really wait for any signs of labour ..i think really have 3-4 days more to go ..grls i m getting really nervous as i m all on my own n this is my first prgnancy ..i have read so much abt induction but still m scared ..can any body help me with there experince how worst or good it is ...i have to opt for induction as it can be really risky for my baby if my bp goes too high usually it is 125/80 n yesterday it was 140/110 ..with acute headaches since 2 days ...my DR is not doing any U/S since 4 weeks n yesterday also he didnt do it ..the babys haed is also not engaged ..i m raelly worried plz help..
AND VINNI LONG TIME HOW' S GOING WITH YOU N UR LITTLE PRINCESS ..IS SHE ALSO NOT READY TO COME YET ..TAKE CARE AND KEEP IN TOUCH vidhi replied. hi dear vinni and neeti .
thanks to both of you ..your words have really made a difference ..i m so soothed now n realy calm..esterday was crying too much worrying but today i m fine ..checked my bp it is now little loww..but swelling remains ..trying to take rest ..anyways yr right vinni induction is much better than c-sec ...its good to hear ur baby is big n u r absolutely fine ..thank GOD i pray for rest of them to have safe deliveries n best of luck to you both too..
neeti even my mom told the same thg tht whatever the dr thinks best do tht ..you r right on tht part
thanks for ur support
may god bless all little angels n give strenght to all the mom' s ...my best wishes r with all of you
take care ..will keep updated Vini replied. Sweety, chill babes... Take it easy... If you stress so much over the inducing thingy, your BP will not come down to normal... I know dear, it is tough... Am in the 39th week now... My baby has not engaged too and no dilation and no effacement... And the worst part is that my baby is too heavy than normal... They said, if by next week appt the baby has not dropped or no signs of dilation etc, then they will plan a C-Sec for me... My appt is on Thursday, so am nervous too... I cried a lot today, but all I have understood is that we should stay calm so that it doesn' t harm our baby in any way... Just relax ok... That' s all I can tell you...

Drink lots of fluids so that you pee out all the water that has retained in your feet... Keep your feet up and don' t do too much of strainous work... Please please please remember baby, worrying and taking tension won' t help you in any way... My sister had her first pregnancy end up in an induction too... It is not that bad... I feel C-Sec is worse... Which I might get... hehehe... But dear, at the end of the day, what you get in return is your darling baby, for whom you waited patiently for 9 months... Don' t panic now... Be bold...

Love to your little one... And yeah love, wishes and prayers are always there for you...

Love,
Vini :) Neeti replied. Hi Vidhi,

I just want to advise you to stay calm and relaxed at this time as taking tension is not good for the baby. I am sure that the doctors want to do whats best for the baby, so if they feel that induction is the best choice, then let than happen and just be thrilled to experience the new joy in your life. With my first pregnancy, it was natural labour, so I can' t give you lot of advise on inducing, but what I have heard , it is not bad..just a way to bring baby few days here and there!!

Stay calm...looking forward to hear good news from you!!

Take care
Neeti