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HI
I don’t know what to do. Please help me out.
My boyfriend is getting married. We then had a very long secret relationship

His dad picked out the girl They have given their word to the family for an arranged marriage.. he found out after… then I found out the 2 days after..
Unfortunately, my boyfriend is a very passive kind of guy and has never stood up to them on any level, appears scared of them and what they might do

I am so frustrated, because it does not seem fair…. He does not even have the courage to stop it or get out of it!

I feel like going to india and stop the wedding my self.. ..because he is not stepping up to the plate … which is not realistically..

My heart, however, is madly in love with him.

He just does not know how to get the courage or know what to say to them to stop it all! I feel very frustrated, depressed and pretty much helpless.

The ball is in his court, but I am scared of the outcome

if he marries her my heart will be broke and I know I will never go on in my life. I am not strong enough..

can he get out of the arranged marriage? If he gets out of it, what happens to the girl? Then what happens to him?

any advice for him to deal with his parents?

He either claims to have no knowledge in any of this, or would rather just not share

I PRAY ALL DAY LONG.. I dunt deserve tis.. I want to be with him..
Can someone plez help me..
When I called him.. I just start to cry.. I m planning on calling him soon.. tis time I am going to write down wut I want to say.. wut should I say??? How should I convince him?
Maddy replied. I am in the same exact situation, and I am heartbroken. He has no feelings for her, and does not think he can grow to love her, especially when he is madly in love with me. I just don' t know what to do, I know there is not much I can do. I am very interested to hear how your situation has turned out.