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How to find happiness in ourselves and feel geat always?I am a person who gets hurt very easily and feel guilty for everything around me. How to raise my self esteem? I would love to live a carefree and excited life. By the way I am 35yrs. married living in US. One kid, but no job.

Thanks! priya replied. When you say that you get hurt very easily and feel guilty ,it means that you are always trying to please everybody around you and not just thinking about yourself.Once you start thinking about yourself then you' ll stop thinking of pleasing others.Think about the positive qualities you have,your dreams ,your happy moments,and so on think of everything that pleases you,the next moment you' ll feel fresh and feel better about yourself.Whatever work you do,even if it is the most trivial work,set a target time,schedule your day-to-day routine and and finish the work with utmost punctuality .You' ll find yourself a worthy and capable person.Be genuine and honest in whatever you do and speak,and that itself is self-esteem gained.And more than anything else spend quality time with your kid and feel how much you are loved and wanted by your kid.And just see the difference. Sonia replied. Hey why do u feel guilty for anything & hurt .. i think u think a lot & take thinks emotionally & personally.. be cool in life & never feel guilty for whatever u do .. if u feel its right then go ahead with it dnt think abt who ll think what etc.. we people in society only decide whats rite & whats wrong.. i hope u ll relax urself by my words.. let me know if u need my help Ecstasy Beauty replied. The way to enjoy life is to accept the things as it is and understanding truth of ' this moment is inevitable' .

Things will happen as it has to happen.