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Dear Friends,

I am writing my problems for your valuable advise. After my divorse i hv remarried. now i hv one daughter. we r staying in another state. the problem is that my ex-husband who is also my father' s sister' s son is frequently visiting to my mother' s house and in good terms with my mother and brother after my father' s death. My brother and mother are also visiting to their house. it is very much disturbing my mind. i hv talked with my mother about the torture which i suffered and forced me to take step for divorse. so why u all r again keeping relation with them. but my mother is telling that he has changed a lot and u(myself) r now in better position. my brother is also searching a girl for my ex-husband' s marriage. but my mind is not accepting their relationship. i don' t want to spoil my relationship with my mother. is there any idea to break their relationship. pl guide me. thank u in advance. sneha replied. hi dear

my suggestion to u is just ignore what ur bro & mom is doing... u hv no control on other ppl thinking and choices.... just concentrate on ur life, hubby & kid....

this is also phase which will pass with due course of time...

treat ur mom & bro as frd ...like u hv no control on ur frds and be cool whatever they are doing... u are feeling insecure bec they are ur closeones and not able tounderstand ur feelings thats why ur expectations are high from them... dont expect...call little less...dont visit too often to there place for smtm till this phase will be over..once ur ex hubby will get married... i am sure his wifey also doesnt like his realtionship with his exwife mom & bro... so wait & watch.. be happy!!!