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2008-12-29

Name: A Lady what is up with all those newly married girls who fail to realise that their husband is someone' s kid??. why do some ladies think that their husbands just jumped from sky and he should have no commitments or obligations with his parents?. my mom stays with my brother and his so called wife.this girl who seems ' normal' in every other aspects, when it comes to her mother in law acts so greedy and like a barbarian. she makes sure that mother and son dos not spen even a singel minute alone in the house,has no respect for an old lady and consider her as an unneccessary person loitering around in the house. why this mentality? .what is that thing which makes her think that she ' owns' her husband completely and after marriage parents are not in the picture.does not it show her real character?.god bless such woman

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what is up with all those newly married girls who fail to realise that their husband is someone' s kid??. why do some ladies think that their husbands just jumped from sky and he should have no commitments or obligations with his parents?. my mom stays with my brother and his so called wife.this girl who seems ' normal' in every other aspects, when it comes to her mother in law acts so greedy and like a barbarian. she makes sure that mother and son dos not spen even a singel minute alone in the house,has no respect for an old lady and consider her as an unneccessary person loitering around in the house. why this mentality? .what is that thing which makes her think that she ' owns' her husband completely and after marriage parents are not in the picture.does not it show her real character?.god bless such woman Mel replied. I' m sure your mom is nice and you' re account is of one where your SIL is unnaturally mean to her.

But, you don' t have the right to judge the rest of the people who have issues with their MILs. Do you even know what we have gone through ? Does giving birth to a son mean mentally and physically torturing his wife ?

I cannot judge your situation, and I sympathise with your mother as she seems to be the victim. But, similarly, you have ABSOLUTELY NO RIGHT to judge the other DILs, as so many of us have gone through hell for no fault of ours.

My MIL traumatises her own son with her greediness. You' re talking about your SIL being greedy and barbaric ? My husband works 7 days a week and drives 2 hours to work, and 2 hours back. And when she wants something, she will not even ask him if he is tired or anything. She will just tell him what she wants, and she will give him a deadline... We have a little kid and not a single rupee saved for him. Because there is no end to their demands. At least your SIL is young. But, what about my MIL. She has lived her whole life in style. Away from her ILs. And she will not let us live in peace.

Please, lady, keep your opinions to yourself. You are NO ONE to judge.

2008-12-30

Name: Mel
Subject:

To each his own

I' m sure your mom is nice and you' re account is of one where your SIL is unnaturally mean to her.

But, you don' t have the right to judge the rest of the people who have issues with their MILs. Do you even know what we have gone through ? Does giving birth to a son mean mentally and physically torturing his wife ?

I cannot judge your situation, and I sympathise with your mother as she seems to be the victim. But, similarly, you have ABSOLUTELY NO RIGHT to judge the other DILs, as so many of us have gone through hell for no fault of ours.

My MIL traumatises her own son with her greediness. You' re talking about your SIL being greedy and barbaric ? My husband works 7 days a week and drives 2 hours to work, and 2 hours back. And when she wants something, she will not even ask him if he is tired or anything. She will just tell him what she wants, and she will give him a deadline... We have a little kid and not a single rupee saved for him. Because there is no end to their demands. At least your SIL is young. But, what about my MIL. She has lived her whole life in style. Away from her ILs. And she will not let us live in peace.

Please, lady, keep your opinions to yourself. You are NO ONE to judge.

2009-01-01

Name: Mel
Subject:

Hi Another Girl

For your information, I´ m not crying. And I WASN´ T asking for advice.

Do you really think it´ s that simple ? We are paying installments for the house we live in. Relocate ???? I´ m amazed at your short-term silo-mentality solutions. We are paying huge instalments. What are we supposed to do. Move and pay rent ?

And what do you think ? I have spent 12 years trying to explain things to my MIL, but she doesn´ t understand... or doesn´ t want to understand.

And about buying things for her, it´ s not in my hands. I oppose, but my hubby feels guilty and ends up giving in.

You cannot understand someones situation unless you really want to.

2008-12-31

Name: Another Girl
Subject:

Dear Mel

Hi Mel,

Just a simple questions, if your MIL is that wierd and your husband is having issues commuting to work why don´ t you guys shift to a place near your work.

Also if u feel that ur MIL is asking for things which are outside your family´ s budget or if you feel that that your child´ s future is more important than your MIL´ s demands, then y don´ t you and ur husband communicate the fact to her.

Ur MIL is a mature lady, if she understands, good for her else just dont buy things she asks for.

Remember one thing, husband may be the head of the family, but wife is the neck of the husband. If this is not the case, better get up and fight for ur child´ s future and for good sake... STOP CRYING>>>>

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