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Name: SM

Hi all,
I need ur valuable advise.Pls help me if u can.
My problem is my relationship with my hubby.We have actually lost everything in our marriage.ours was a love marriage. The main problem between me and him are about 2 thngs money and parents.I m a working woman and till some time back I was earning more than him.He thinks that whatever he spends I have to equally spend.He will not ask or bother about household needs as he thinks that everything in house my wife will take care of..as she is earning.So, he is least bothered for the house needs or child needs.Whenever, u have discussion with him, he will start denying my contributions n start pinpointing on that one instance he had done.He gives the rent n keep on saying tat I m paying the rent so pay the remaining. I feel tat all this had been taught by his parents..as earlier he wasnt like tat. Also another issue is his mother. She doesnt like me at all from the begining.Everytime she comes she feels she is the owner of the house n she starts dictating the house n her son. BUt the point i have also bought everything in the house with my hard earned money.she feels still i shud nt be having anything n spend my own hard earned money according to her wishes..Things have gone so worse becoz of the constant fights betwene us that I really have stopped doing anything for my husband but still i make sure the made does. Every action of his mother he watches and still feels that his mother shud stay with him.
He still can compromise by not staying with me or my son(who is jes 7 mths old) but he wants his mother who have always created rift between us.Watever we may discuss he will only show tat he doesnt care about me in his attitude.
I was jes staying with him for my child future.But wats the future if we keep on fighting for alll such issues.We have tried to discuss manytimes but there is no solution.It' s been 3.5 yrs of our marriage.
Pls help n let me know what shud I do.Shud i go for separation.

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