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One intercourse - 31 years old woman?
Am married wth 4 years old son..I just had only one intercourse with my husband... v ' ve been married for 6 years...dont know whats the reason he never tried or did something to me...I am not at all happy with him...
I recently went out wth my friend and he is a divorcee..happened to be alone for 30 mins... He just smooched me & touched my hand & cheeks..I felt so good... and after that he took me to his room again trying to have intercourse taht I havent prepared & said No to him... He is calm and nice man...only when I call he talks to me otherwise no..Nowadays I am so desparate to have sex with him...dont know what to do ? can anyone suggest me



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s spoke with him on this... but said i am not showing interest so he didnt force me...but atleast he never hold my hand for a time .. he never said something good abt me...he never had a gr8 look at me ... almost all the time he is on travel( continous 3 months away or everyyweekend stays )...sometimes I used to think what a man he is ...No romance ...nothing ...ignorant ..He never wishes on any accasion like bday or anniversary..no gifts tooo..I am just living for my son' sake and its arranged marriage dont want to hurt my parents ..But true to my hurt I am not at all Happy abt him..Not even a single momeent I can feel good abt my marriage and him... I am also working and busy with my tight schedule like taking care of my kid , sending to school ,office , pick him up , tuition, his home work , preparing dinner and sleep . I am most of the time alone so I need to take care of everything ..this is what happened so far. Suddenly the other man came in and due to tht situation felt all ths
sushil replied. dear try to cooperate with him for the same , it should be from both the ends so try once more TP replied. Hi dear,

\" To be or not to be is the only answer\" .YOu know very clearly in your heart that you dont want to stay with your husband.You have already mentioned that you are staying with him for your son' s sake but this is not correct.Why dont you legalise your relationship with this new man in your life.Separate from our husband and marry the new person.Ask him if he would be a good father to your son.Staying with your husband and romancing or thinking about another person is not ethical.You can not have the best of the person' s - staying within the wedlock and romance another person - this would be morally wrong.My suggestion would be to separate/divorce your husband and marry the new guy.I am sure if the new person loves you - he will agree to father your son too.Let me know how it goes.

Best wishes , TP