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hello all! i am getting married in another 2 months...a love marr with the person i loved and he loves me too.we do have our own arguments/fights etc....at theend of it ,we r together.... and fine...he is a practical guy...
of late one thing i have realsied is he is a mama' s boy....he does ask me/tell me decisions before hand ..even though his parents might have taken it .... he may/may not change decsions...but i am scared....of future....moreover his mom is very cunning...i am realsiing this now...she is caring of me..in the sense she sends me good wishes,asks me wat i eat(since i stay in a flat),asks me wat kind of clothes i wear etc..she is not orthodox...but very very smart...am getting scared now ...how to handle her...i cant tell this to my fiance...though he gets sangry somethimes if i say something about his parents...
how to handle such MILs??? plz advice... i a mhaving too much tension because of this.. Rakhi replied. You have to get married to your fiance whom you love and vice versa . Don' t worry about your MIL ,you have to be diplomatic while dealing if at all she is who you think she is .Don' t feel bad if she says something , try to just keep quiet and not to pay heed , don' t be disrespectful but be tactful. Any time you feel like saying something look at your husband and think how will you feel is he says something for your parents .Enjoy your married life .First couple of years are the golden years . so Good Luck and Best wishes for your life .
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anon replied. dont get married if you are so scared of your smart mil. else you will land up in one of these message boards pouring out. But just because your mil asked those questions you cannot say that she is smart. Be with her for a month or so and then decide whether to go for a marriage or stay separately from your mil after marriage.