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HI LADIES

I WOULD LIKE TO SHARE MY OPINION ON MEN,

I THINK MEN WILL CHANGE TOTALLY AFTER GETTING THE KIDS, DOESN' T LUV THE WIFES AS BEFORE, MAY BE THE REASON IS THEY KNOWS THAT ANYHOW SHE WILL STAY WITH HIM ATLEASE BECAUSE OF KIDS.

AND ALSO THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN WOMEN & HER INLAWS DEPENDS ON HOW HER HUSBAND BEHAVES WITH HER.

hhh replied. At one time i thought that husbands change after the child' s birth but in my case that is not true. He is here in the U/S and still, he clings to his family like he still a baby. Like what is it with these indian men and thier family? White men get married and move on and think that the wife and children are my family but not indian men. i just don' t understand. If women can leave thier family so can men! I totally agree with the fact that if husbands don' t respect the wives, then he is just provoking his family to be mean to his wife. My husband did not treat me properly infront of his parents, he was so close to slapping me. I al not able to forgive him till this very day. If he weren' t the father of my child, i would have left him by now. I just don' t understand that if husband cannot respect or stand up for thier wifes, or give them respect what right do they have to get married. I found it very common when a guy dreams about his love or fiancess, but can you believe a man saying his brothers name in his sleep? does anyone not find that abnormal or what? Well, my husband did that and i was shocked! You dream about him so much, why don' t you just go to him? Namita replied. this is 100% true, if husband respects you only n only in laws will respect... they are just on their toes to take a chance where they can make their dil feel down

i hve seen dil' s not doing anything at some homes and in such home husband have the attitude tht no one should blame my wife ... n on the other hand wher dil' s slog whole day n still have to listen to bad mouthing it happens only when her husabnd disrespect her neha1 replied. true,to an extent...i feel that priorities change afer marr and thats y he cannot keep being the same person after marriage...and the second opinion is very true...if the husband marries u after loving u then no one wil do anything...again there r exceptions...this is wat all i feell...ppl may have diff opinons Friend replied. I Totally agree with you. Both of your opinion is 100% correct. If Husband luvs you or support you Inlaws don' t misbehave with you.