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its been around a year now, and my hubby is acting as if he is choking me, by putting his hands around my neck. Though i dont get physically hurt, and he does it as if he is joking, i m getting scared for my life. I have told him, if he did it once it was ok, but doing it almost everyday is not funny. I m scared and could not sleep.. help me plzzzzzzzzzz V replied. Dear none,

Please do stand up for yourself. Are you too puny with reference to his frame size and height?

Do start talking within your family first, mother or a sibling you feel comfortable with.

What your husband is doing is CLEARLY WRONG. Its abuse, intimidation, physical threat. Mehek replied. That sounds really wierd. I would freak me out too. Tell him once again that I do not like what you are doing, it is scaring me and if he does it again you need to talk to someone about it...from your family for a start. V replied. Is he doing this during the act of love making?[or sex may be, if you are scared, he is surely not making love to you!] Or is this act in other normal time? Does he do it after some talk, as a response to what you say or as a further act of what he was saying? Please clarify.

However, if you are uncomfortable with the act and have told him and he is continuing the act in spite of your objection, then he is PHYSICALLY ABUSING you. Be more stern and try to block him or resist his act, keep your parents informed. How long are you married? Do you have children? Please write again.