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Guys,

Pls help me . I have 11 yrs experience in IT and work as a data architect in MNC. Nothing seem to work find over there and they have asked me to move on. I am unable to move to smaller companies bcos my sal is pretty high in screening process itself i am rejected. Its getting really tough to get a job. I am a bread earner for my family ,all heavy emi' s are on my head,donno what to do. Sometimes feel atleast if i die my family will get my lic' s and they can sustain for few months till my small daugthter grows up. I stay in bangalore and whenever i used to look for chnage i used to get 4-5 offers in hand ,right now i am unable to find anything at all.. yday i was telling my daughter while feeding if i die what will u do..she asked me who will feed me and all..day by day i am going to depression mode and weeping most of the times ..I know practically its not going to help but i dont find any ways at all..friends help me Sanika replied. Hello SDS,

This is the phase where in you will have believe in yourself. You have 11 years of IT experience - thats really nice. Which company do you work with. Are you ready to relocate? I would like to have your email ID .I have some very good company contacts in Pune and Bangalore, I can send your resume to.

Keep your spirits high. And yes, please stop taking your frustration out on your child. She doesnt understand the situation at all. She will really feel bad, why her mother is behaving in a strange way to her. Ask your husband to take a part time job too, if his business is not working out.

DONT EVEN THINK ABOUT SUICIDE AND ALL. THIS IS THE TIME, WHERE YOU WILL HAVE TO STAND STRONG AND TELL YOURSELF, \" I' ll GET THROUGH THIS SITUATION\" . WRITE IN ON A BIG PIECE OF PAPER AND STICK IT ON A WALL.

Please give me your email id for sure. xyz replied. in every human beings life there is ups and downs. and nobody can escape from it, all we can do i face it.. i was working and now since i had to join my hub i quit my job and now i cant get a job its been 10 months i m at home.... these kind of things happen to everybody and if there are no ups and downs in anybody' s life then we dont learn anything .... priya replied. You have 11 years in IT and you feel this way !!! Cheer up .. its not all that bad!

Inform the consultants that you are ready to settle down for little lesser giving some excuse like if the company is close to ur home or job profile is good etc etc

Dont feel so bad ....Have patience ..and it will all workout ...

I too working for IT .. you need some sort of help .. let me know ..i can try and help you

Priya KUJULAKSHMI replied.
AS AN OLD LADY I CAN TELL YOU, IN EVERY ONE' S LIFE THERE ARE UPS AND DOWNS.

yOU PRAY AND TRY TO FIND A JOB. OR PARAY TO SURIVIVE IN THE PRESENT JOB.

THERE IS NOTHING IMPOSSIBLE TO GOD. FOOLISH PEPOLE ARE DOING SUICIDE WHICH WILL GIVE BAD IMAGE TO THEIR LIVING FAMILIES.

I AM PRAYING FOR YOU. GOD WILL OPEN THE DOOR ON THE LAST MINITUE ON HIS TIME. Namita replied. dnt ever think of comitting sucide ... this phase comes in everyones life

whr is ur husband ... y r u the bread earner ... r u staying with ur parents, wht r they doing?

abve r few of my question which vl help me to gve u some solutions

rt. now try hard for new job .... pray to God ... have ur current office given a last date or they are just keeping on mentioning tht u hve to search for another job .... if they have mentioned it to u without any action then try hard to ignore them till you get better job ....

i understnd it is difficult to go down in life .. evn if it with package ... bt at times you dnt hve any choice ... if ur office have given you a memo or last date for reliving then pls. accept the best in ur hand, may b it is less package .. ofcourse dnt compromise more .... if you can wait in this office then keep trying n ignoring ur office demands

i really dnt have words to tell you bcoz i undrstnd wht u r going thru .... think abt ur child .. evryone have faced such situations in life ... wher v actually r stuck n feel like comitting suicide .... evn if you vl ask ur parents they vl tell you abt such prob. whihc they hve faced

pls. remove sucidial thought from ur mind n b strong ... give some time to ur self .. this is where we go wrong ... we expect everything in the time frame tht we decide ... sometimes \" NO is the answere from God .. bt at the end tht is also for our benefit