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I had fight with my hubby, when ever we fight strange things happen, we blame each others family. we don't get diff in any other matter.it's really hard for me to listen his harsh words. for ex: i said , your sister stays at mother house & dominates me( which is 100% true), in reply he says \"; she is lot better than you, she has two healthy kids, (since i am going throw infertility problem for 5 yrs).so..it's goes on like this.when ever we fight, he never talk in favor of me to his family. his family treats me like trash. even though he is nice , when we are not fighting...it stops me from loving him 100%(which i want to do). wht shd i do? shilpy replied. I have had a similar experience. My son was born after 5 years of marriage, following treatment.
Some men react like this. Maybe your friends etc have had chilren and he feels that he is helpless in a situation where you are not fully informed. Do you both have all the information on your infertility?
I dont know where you stay but there is a lot of info on the net.
When you are both calm then I suggest that you tell him that his behaviour iduring a fight - comparing you to ANYONE is WRONG and unfair. Like I told you, I was in a similar situation and my doctor helped me a lot by counselling us both together and seperately. Inorder to be able to conceive one has to be mentally calm, otherwise our bodies will not accept a pregnancy. dont give up hope, we all know that women are the stronger halves of a marriage.