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Hi All,

I wanted to share something and wanted advice.

In my residential society, I had a very good friend. She and I used to get along very very well for almost 4-5 years now. Our kids too get along with each other very nicely. They call themselves the best friends of each other. Even in the society me and that friend of mine are treated as the best friends.

In the month of Feb this year, we had a small argument. There was a small misunderstanding on a silly reason. Actually it was our both' s fault. She had somethings in mind. But I went to her house to accept and agree on my mistake and even said sorry. But she had totally taken it the other way, and said very bad things to me. I had gone to her to accept and apologize for my mistake which I did open heartedly because i wanted to keep the friendship. She said so many things which had hurt me a lot and were not acceptable to me. But I cannot FIGHT with anyone, thats my weak point. She made me cry by saying all those things. However, she did not accept her mistake at all. I have stopped completely going to her place now.

Anyways, I try to keep my son and her son together. I dont force him at all to play with her son only. But they both are connected to each other mentally. Since they were born, we used to be with each other and all. So, they don' t understand anything between both of us. But she is trying to keep her son away. But whn we meet in the playarea and all they both do play with each other.

I dont want to break their friendship. But its happening only one way. I dont want my child only one friend - her son. I take him to the parks, public places where there are other kids to play with. But I feel bad when I see him asking for his best friend. He goes to school too and even there he has friends, but when he' s at home, he keeps on asking, when are we going to her home to play. I now, feel awkward to even go to her place because of the insulting behavior.

I really wonder at time, how should I cope up with this. Please help me and advice me. BigFuC replied. But on a whole , u have told what was the mis undrestanding was al about..
U said all the stories...but what you did to get offended from a best freind.
You must have done some serious thing and you are trying to pretend..
Asking just a sorry will not vanish the urges..
Tell us all what you did and y she is not accepting..

I feel that the fault should be frmo ur end and so u r not letting others to knowin this forum..

Only then any one can suggest ..

Dont waste our time