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I am married since last 6 yrs, have a 3 yr old child. am working. had a love marraige............inspite of all telling me not to marry this guy. i realised it soon. my husband does not care abt me or my baby, he disrespects my family. i dont know how to handle this. moreover his parents are the worst kind of in laws i could inherit. they come to stay with us very often, as pure liabilities. all the time that they are here me and my husband dont even look at each other, the tension is so high. he will not impose any restriction or anything, its just that he is nit at all bothered, where i go, what i eat, do i sleep. who are my friends, whao do i call? i even tried to do weird things to arouse jealousy, but he doesnt care. only when he needs sex, he will come to me, treat me like an object, use me and go. i earn for my living, then why cant i take a stand. baby is solely my responsibility.....i am extremely lonely in life. he only loves his parents and walk behind them like a puppy........i cant stsnd this. my parents are a little orthodox, n becoz of them i am trying to make this work, but in this whole process i am losing respect for myself. i hate myself for what i let them do to me. i have no strength left. i am very tired... me replied. Hi Priya!
Talk to ur hubby first alone..if it doesn' t work out, talk to ur in-laws..update ur parents. Don' t bring them into it as they may get embarressed and also may feel disrespected. If still things don' t work out, look at councelling alone and if possible together. Tell him and urself to think of the child ! And beyond that trust the professional councellor to advice u best ! Take care ! Jyoti replied. Hi Priya,
You are lucky that u are working and God gave u a beautiful kid for u. Take help from very good or true friend or yur parents and talk to yur hubby. I think he will understand as yur are lovermarriage parter so discuss ist with him.