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Hi friends its been a long long time I haven' t spoken my thoughts to all of you.I miss you all.Well if you remember I have a fantastic set of LIARS my MIL and her FAVOURITE SIL.I don' t know when they will get tired and leave me alone.My SIL and her kids as you know always create problems for me plain jealous to the extent that they cut our cable t.v. or telephone wires too.It is such a pain and I guess no one else would cut it with blade which is qiute visible.My MIL on every step protects them,she says Kissi ke naukar ne kiya hoga or kabootar bhi kaat sakta hai.Such minor things keep on piling till they get big one day.The day she has to go to her kitty party she would come to me and say Auto nahin milta hai(The SIL is very much at home but she is not disturbed)Can you drop me?? If I say today Iam a bit busy she would say Bhaad mein jaa.What to do??PLease help Ritika replied. Dear Geeta,

Sorry to hear that you are still suffering from your MIL. How do you react when she says something as hurtful as \" bhaad mein jao\" ?? I would have been so mad!! Have you ever asked her \" why don' t you ask your other DIL?\"

About the cable wire and stuff, I agree with you..these are minor things which just keep getting bigger and bigger till they explode.

I frankly don' t see an end to these kind of irritants unless you change your living situation/ I realize that you own part of the house and that is why it is difficult for you to leave it...but can' t you lock your rooms and then go and stay somewhere nearby??

I mean, you are losing so much peace of mind...is it worth it??

take care,
Ritika

PS: for anna - There have been many heart touching issues in this board in the past (including Geeta' s initial posts). Have you ever replied to any one of them in order to help out??

Or is that you just discovered this board 2 days back and not finding any thing you like here, you have started passing judgments on all and sundry??

You remind me of some of the troublemakers we have in certain teams...they' ll never ever give any solution to a problem but will shoot down everything that another person proposes. They cannot think originally on their own but love to criticize and bring down someone else' s thoughts.

And if all this does not hold true in your case, then kindly do enlighten us with some of the \" real\" women' s issues that need discussion. I' m sure quite a few of us will pitch in once you start those threads. anna replied. Its me anna again!

You guys abused me with all your earnest, ok accepted, but where are the replies to Geeta? Why no one could take interest and interacted at length with her?

Doesn' t it prove that what this post was trying to discuss is a cliched?

Do discuss women' s issues, but those which need discussion. I am a woman too. You guys do not even seem to be aware how to pronounce my name! anna replied. Solution should have been simple! Just shift away from these kind of dirty people. I am sure your problem is your H does not have the requisite confidence on you, or he does not have the requisite money/property to run his family. Its not interesting or funny even to keep reading the same old MIL-SIL-DIL stories over and over again... Cant you ladies discuss something more abstract?