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Ladies,

Our was a luv marriage.. My problem is that my hubby is not very social in nature. Not only is he introvert he just doesn’t take any effort in mingling up with people.He hardly has close friends. I am very social n like to meet people, make friends, and attend parties. But ever since I have got married I hardly attended any party. He doesn’t meet people warmly because he is too egoistic. Lately we had attended a cousin’s marriage and everyone was enjoying except for us. My DH just didn’t try to mingle up with people n I am sure was feeling left out in the gathering. I think he wants people to approach him but he himself never take an effort.

I want to convey him that its not a right attitude and we need some friends around but cannot do so coz I know he wud not take it in a right spirit.Pls suggest how shall I improve him.
nita replied. Hello,

If somebody throws a party, my hubby will be the last to attend and first to leave. He is not egoistic, but feels that all that are a big waste. Sometimes he tells if u want then go. i cannot afford for any gift. But that to do, we are fond of friends and relations. God pairs up only opposite sex and opposite character and names it as adjustment.