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Waiting to try:Hello Everyone..

2004-04-28

Name: Meenu V I am new to this group. I used to read the messages here regularly. I usually have irregular periods. In the month of Jan, my periods was delayed by about 15 days and hence went to the doctor as we tried for the first time during that time. I was pregnant. My happiness knew no limits :-) Then slowly things were going on but I always used to have slight stomach pain. But on March 15th , I had slight bleeding. Doc advised an ultra scan and then declared that the growth is not proper and advised a D&C. I had the D&C done on the same day as bleeding started for me. She has advised us not to try for another 3 months. I got my first periods after D&C on 26th April. Though I act normal, I still have that feeling that I lost my kid (my husband still consoles me telling that it was not developed as a kid, so don't worry). He is very supportive. I am a working woman in software field. In my team, I am the only girl. I don't have good friends to share my feelings. Thought this is the best place for me to chat with others and express whatever I feel.
Thanks for reading my message patiently...
Rgds,
Meenu

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I am new to this group. I used to read the messages here regularly. I usually have irregular periods. In the month of Jan, my periods was delayed by about 15 days and hence went to the doctor as we tried for the first time during that time. I was pregnant. My happiness knew no limits :-) Then slowly things were going on but I always used to have slight stomach pain. But on March 15th , I had slight bleeding. Doc advised an ultra scan and then declared that the growth is not proper and advised a D&C. I had the D&C done on the same day as bleeding started for me. She has advised us not to try for another 3 months. I got my first periods after D&C on 26th April. Though I act normal, I still have that feeling that I lost my kid (my husband still consoles me telling that it was not developed as a kid, so don't worry). He is very supportive. I am a working woman in software field. In my team, I am the only girl. I don't have good friends to share my feelings. Thought this is the best place for me to chat with others and express whatever I feel.
Thanks for reading my message patiently...
Rgds,
Meenu Meenu replied. It was nice to see your reply for my messages. I really need people to talk out all my feelings. I will be in touch with all of you atleast 5 days in a week :-)
I am eager to know your results cheery. Things will definitely go fine. Cheery replied. Thank you for asking how I am. I am doing fine. Although, I will know today the blood test results.
Please do take care of yourself and you should be happy that you have a very supportive husband.
Be positive and think positive!! Dont think you have no friends, we are all here out for you. ALl you need to do is send a msg.
Take care of yourself. Archie replied. Dear Meenu,

I am so sorry for your losss. I know easy when said but things will happen and you will be blessed with healthy pregnancy.

You shall follow advise of your Dr. While D&C you will loose some lining and you must give sufficient time to develope it again. Usually 2-3 cycles.

Since you got pregnant things should be OK when you ttc after miscarriage. You know that all is fine between you and husband.

Having supporting husband will help you overcome situation.

Archie

2004-04-29

Name: Meenu
Subject:

Thanks Cheery and Archie...

It was nice to see your reply for my messages. I really need people to talk out all my feelings. I will be in touch with all of you atleast 5 days in a week :-)
I am eager to know your results cheery. Things will definitely go fine.

2004-04-29

Name: Archie
Subject:

Just that much?

Dear Meenu,
You are more than welcome and just wondered why you restrict to number 5 days a week, why not multiple times a day, of course each working day:)
Archie

2004-04-28

Name: Cheery
Subject:

Hope you are well

Thank you for asking how I am. I am doing fine. Although, I will know today the blood test results.
Please do take care of yourself and you should be happy that you have a very supportive husband.
Be positive and think positive!! Dont think you have no friends, we are all here out for you. ALl you need to do is send a msg.
Take care of yourself.

2004-04-28

Name: Archie
Subject:

Sorry for you

Dear Meenu,

I am so sorry for your losss. I know easy when said but things will happen and you will be blessed with healthy pregnancy.

You shall follow advise of your Dr. While D&C you will loose some lining and you must give sufficient time to develope it again. Usually 2-3 cycles.

Since you got pregnant things should be OK when you ttc after miscarriage. You know that all is fine between you and husband.

Having supporting husband will help you overcome situation.

Archie

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