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very first thing ..n the last thing whatever hpnd it was btwn me n noorjahan...n i thing noorjahan understood very wel l what i wanted to tell her...u can go n chk her msg...
it was none of ur business to o to interfere btwn us...
n if ur so much to urself then i think u shdnt post ur probs on this site at all...otherwise u will get diff replies ..dif opinion...none of ur 5 fingers a alike...
anyways its a promis e to u too..that u will never see my reply on this board ..rather than going thru such rude comments n insult i am better off without visiting this site...

as far as not giving respect to noorjahan is concerned ...u too ddnt gv respect to my thinking of having less babies...right...

sneh replied. intresting thought indian lady .but dont you think that you are doing exactly the same thing you asked me not to do .
practice before preach Indian_lady replied. Hi sneh, why do you talk about gg for any reason when she is just conveying her thoughts to noorjahan?. If noorjahan is worried about gg' s thoughts, she can reply. Why do you get involved in between?
are you trying to proove something here???
Just read the problem, and give your comments, dont read other' s opinions and give your comments.
As for as i know this board is to get help from others only..not for debating...
Indian Lady Namita replied. i dnt know the prob and the replies to Noor.. i cant even read (u knwo the reason) ... bt. as ritika nd sonu said v all dnt wnt u to quit

c this things happen ... infact, there is a girl in this board whoes comments and suggetions i feel are never realistic bt i never commented on that i just ignored bcoz there are people who might be lookin fwd for her comments .. as we all look for ur comments (if u remeber i have called for u several times)

so it happens ... as u said not all five fingers are same ... same way not everyone like wht v spk .. bt. rather than thinking and feeling bad abt. whtever some said to u ... look at the comments which are in favour of u

when the glass is filled half with water, it is upto u how u look at it sneh replied. well GG JUST like you all of us have out opinions and I think the idea of forums and message boards is where you can see the pool of ideas and discussions .I personally feel very awkward when someone especially in india tries to comment on your personal life like why are you not having kids after 4 years of marriage ,why do you have 4 kids ,why dont you cook daily like us for kids and husband ,how come you ask your husband for help etc .
I think every person has right to decide how he or she wnts to shape her life if he /she asks for suggestiions we should give without being judgemental and respect their decesions.If we dont have suggestions it is better to just shut up and not comment on their decesions .That is maturity Period
now it is totaly your choice to visit this forum or not .who cares. sneh replied. well GG JUST like you all of us have out opinions and I think the idea of forums and message boards is where you can see the pool of ideas and discussions .I personally feel very awkward when someone especially in india tries to comment on your personal life like why are you not having kids after 4 years of marriage ,why do you have 4 kids ,why dont you cook daily like us for kids and husband ,how come you ask your husband for help etc .
I think every person has right to decide how he or she wnts to shape her life if he /she asks for suggestiions we should give without being judgemental and respect their decesions.If we dont have suggestions it is better to just shut up and not comment on their decesions .That is maturity Period
now it is totaly your choice to visit this forum or not .who cares. Ritika replied. Hey gg,

Come on sweetie, don' t get so angry! I know a lot of people here like you (including me) for your sweet and from the heart posts...:)

So don' t leave the board ok...?!! I hope you change yr mind...

take care,
Ritika

sonu replied. Hey gg,
Come on, dont be silly!
Leaving board just because ppl didnt like ur reply ? Ok, then what u' ve learnt from ur Co-sister whom u r unknowingly admiring for her strength and courage to solve her probs on her own?
Withdrawing ourselves when things around us are not favourable to us....is not good idea and not advisable too. Ask ur Co-sis what she would do if she was in ur place? Definitely she would not quit!

I know u r very soft and sensitive. So, definitely, regulor visitors like me understand what do u mean... though anytime if ur writings sound little different as in noorjahan' s post ( :) ) !

So, gg, keep aside ur decision to leave the board. Just we came here to make friends here...not to make mils ) !
So lets accept it is forum of different personalities and with different beliefs.

Ok,gg? If u still want to leave this site,thats up to u !! Because I know u' ll be roaming here atleast just to read if not for responding. Also, I' m sure u cant avoid urself when u find some needy seeks help and uthen definitely u will strech ur fingers to type an answer ,may be u' ll hide ur identity as gg but I' m sure dear,U cant stop visiting our friends here!

So, telling u again, dont withdraw urself from ur favourite time of spending in board just because somebody didnt like ur posts! OK?! yes, ppl never mind uleaving this site and they forget u within no time...but You' ll be loosing one thing in ur life.That u shn' t do for others. I know u understand what I mean...

sss replied. hi gg,
i see that you are a very emotional person.actually i was very upset with you by seeing your last post to me which i thought was out of place and had determined that i will never write to you.but your decision to back out from the board make me feel that i should write to you.i understand that you are a simple person at heart and when you write something,you only want to help the other person.but what happens is that when we write people easily misunderstand us.people generally use this board for getting an emotional high when they are actually depressed.so they dont want to hear anything against their belief and only want others to support them.but in real life we can criticise our friends,point out to them when they are wrong and they will trust us even when we point out their mistakes.last time i felt you were wrong with your sil and wrote that.you didnt take it positively.so i understood that we can only say yes and never say no in this board.
gg,i dont know whether depending on this board a lot is good or bad,but it really give us a place where we can write all our tensions and frustrations.so dont leave it
take care
sss