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what are ur views on premarital sex. I feel its ok as long as it is safe sex. sarah replied. I was just wondering if you could look at my message and give me some feedback of what you think. I would really appreciate it I am confused and dont know how to get people to give me advice. Thanks sarah replied. I'm not Indian I am an American, but my fiance is from India. He was a virgin until we got together and we know we are going to be together regaurdless if sex is involved or not. I think as long as sex isnt the only thing the realtionship is about and you love the person and know you want to be with them then go for it. It is all on what you feel your comfortable with. ritu replied. hi priya,
i dont think there's anythign wrong with pre-marital sex. just be careful, take precautions, and dont go overboard. if you are really in love or really fond of someone and feel the time is right, go for it. but dont just start having sex for the sake of it, with anyone and everyone. set some limits for yourself, and stick to them. A friend replied. Hi Priya,
For ur question u will get many different types of views, so its for u to decide what u think abt. it. If u feel its ok then fine. U should not feel guilty about it later, specially if by chance, u dont marry that person. The Indian society forbids it as WRONG. Our society makes so many rules, specially for girls, which I really feel angry about sometimes. Who is this society? Who has given them the right to say what is right and what is wrong. But still we have a fear within ourselves and so we always do what the society says is right as after all we have to live in this so called SOCIETY. We always think \";What people will say\";. When God made a human being, did he come and say that a girl has to leave home after marriage, did he say that a man can do anything but still its not wrong but if a woman does something its wrong, NO. God did not say it but the society tells it. But since we have to live in this society, we agree with it. So in our indian society, its a sin to have premarital sex but it really depends on U urself. U have to do what u feel is right, but only be sure that u dont feel GUILTY later on.