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Hi Ladies,

How you respond your husbands negative comments about your figure?
Suppose if your husband say you are out of shape though you are having nice figure.. what would be your reply?

Will you fight with your hubby regarding this or just keep quiet?

Pls reply

Thanks
Anshu
gg replied. ..lol....then u should come n see me...
b4 mrrg...i was one hep girl with lots of atiitude...for having cut glass figure..now i am totally opposite...atleast i am better now..i ddtn put weight when i was preg...but after my delivery my good i put 6 kgs more...16 + 6 u can imagine..once my husband happend to tell me...even though he said he was joking ..which i know he wasnt i told excuse me what is the reason behind this loads of weight? this is because of produicng ur baby...if u were so conscious u shouldnt hv gone for this baby coz every female loses her figure in pregnany...from that day he has stopped making fun...coz he is very fond of kids...speically baby girl...
ignore n ritika is absolutely right ...even my husband use to look handsome...b4 mrrg...he too needs few visit to gym ..next time if he tells me again i will gv tell him ur reply ritika..lol....
best thing ignore...
u feel good u look good...getting mrrd doesnt mean u stop paying atention to urself...at the same time be happy with what u have ..we cant be same like those teenage girls...but still we can love our self.... Namita replied. dnt worry dear ... i think every husband have this habbit but yes it should not be a constant nagging business from him, then it hurts ...masak masti mai chal jata hai aur kabhi kabhi serously but not always

as it is said \" ghar ki murgi dal barabar\"

so dont worry so much ...

i always tell my husband that i am my own judge i never ask or never want to hear any other persons comments(bad) on me .. BCOZ I KNOW I M BEAUTIFUL

u should be confident about urself rather than being best figure or beautiful

back to ur question: when my husband says such things, i just give a look then a smile and after some time i make it a point to say that \" u know this trousers actually looks good, fits good bcoz i have seen a person wearing it was looking fabulous on him .. u should work out to reduce ur tummy\"

after 2-3 such comments he will think b4 commenting on u ... if u fight or argue husband will say u r not taking in good spirit or u r just nagging for small things ... so this is the best way to make them realise how u feel when they comment.

pyar ka jawab pyar se .. pathar ka jawab pathar se:)

just chill Ritika replied. Neither. I' ll just cutely tell him - \" Sweetie, I have some news for you baby! You' re no Brad Pitt either..so lets start exercising together so that you still don' t look out of shape when I become all ship shape..lol ) \"

The thing is - when somebody judges you unkindly, toss the judgment right back at them so they know exactly what it feels like.