hi...
i m in mi 7th month nd off late i gt angry terribly soon nd i think almst all in the house try to make me angry at one point or another.........since i m in a joint family there r many occassions when i feel upset n low nd i feel ther is no one on mi side.. nt even my husband...i m all alone....i feel so lost that this is the time that i should be laughing n enjoying.....
the result is that i end up crying.........i m actually worrried that will this behaviour of mine affect mi baby's health n nature also?
please help n suggest....... sk replied. hi all
thanx so much fr all ur suggetsions...
that day when i wrote that mail i was so bugged up...nd i even frgt abt it its today whle i came on the site i raelised what i wrote..hey that way mi husband is also very caring nd he is the one who gives me shoulder to lean n cry if i m shattered....i share almst everything with him be it whatever...
i m trying to maintain my cool nd i m sure its working...
thanx again
sk Smita replied. i know how it feels. even its the same with me. i get irritated at every little thing. and feel like screaming my head off. i was always short tempered. and now its even worse. cant say a thing to my mother in law and yet..... the only plus is that my hubby is very co operative. he reads the books on pregnancy more than i do. almost every night i take out all my frustration at him. what happened in the day, my worries, my anger at my mother in law everything. and poor chap he bears it all silently. my mil is very caring in fact over caring and right now i m getting irritated at every little thing she does. if it wasnt for my husband i would have gone mad by now.
you know our staying iorritated does affect the babys nature. he'she also becpomes like that. so we have to force ourselves to stay cool. i m trying hard. listening cds, spending time alone in my room, reading books etc. you try too. and see if youy can come up with a solution.
take care Sonu replied. Hi!
I think like Priya said it's just a passing phase. I too have and am going through this sometimes. Sometimes I feel like I am being neglected, feel like I need to be taken care of and let me do what I want. I end up crying and hurting myself and the little one. So don't let small things effect you. Try to stay calm.

I too cried once so much that my dad and mom (miles and miles away) got so worried and cried so much. I repent so much for doing it. Come to think of it today it was such a small thing I had asked them to do and they hadn't. Ghosh wonder why the hell I was like that then. I feel so sorry for my behavior towards them. I do repent abt it till date.

So just forget it and stay calm. priya replied. hi sk,
don't worry, i had been in the same situation till a month back. Used to get so angry at my husband for coming home late etc(even though I knew he had lot of pressure at his work), which eventually ended up in heated arguments and me ending up crying. Used to have the same feeling that am all alone and don't have anybody to support me!! We stay alone in B'lore and so not much trouble, but some more serious fight and crying happenned when we were in our hometown for Diwali!! My parents were shocked to see me crying so much and they ended up crying too. My ILs too were irritated with my attitude at another instant and the situation seemed to be the worst ever in my life!! My parents advised me to just ignore everything and not to care for anybody at this juncture and just take care of myself and the baby and be happy. That turned out to be the most valuable piece of advice. I don't know if I followed it strictly or my emotional behaviour came to an end, but now not a single fight after that. I don't ask my husband to come early at all nowadays but he has realised that its important for him to be back home early for my sake and is doing it. So everything is going on so smooth now. In fact yesterday he was apologising for making me cry so many times and he should have been a bit more understanding. Chooooo chweet!! Isn't?? :-)) So just don't worry, just keep in mind that what is is at stake is yours and your baby's health and so just ignore others actions and just try to keep yourself happy and healthy. Am sure its just a passing thing and you will be fine soon. Cheer up!!!