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I want to highlight a problem which arise due to parents thinking that boy is living separatly with his parents and my daughter will not be in any way affected with the other family members of his.

This has happened to me. I think it is the girl who suffers afterwards. a dil replied. Hi ,

Looks like you are not happy living with your husband's family members(I guess his Mom-Dad). If that is the problem, can you explain it more clearly what your issues are? Do they ill-treat you? And weren't you aware of the fact that your hubby's family stay with him? How long have you been married? Have you ever discussed this issue with your husband about his not giving enough love, attention and time?

Based on what you have written, I am assuming that before marriage you & your father were under the impression that your \";wud be hubby\"; stays alone and
you would have an independent life after marriage. But in reality, it didn't happen, and now (unwillingly) you have to stay with his family and at the same time, your hubby turned out to be very indifferent towards you. If you were not told the truth, then its their fault. You can question them why they hid the reality. And as far as your hubby's behavior is concerened, I can only say, talk to him - ask him why he is not showing any affection. Tell him, you being a wife deserve all the love, happiness & companionship. Believe me, a mature conversation helps a lot. Try to know the reason.

Hope this helps. And write in more detail about your problems/issues, so that we DILs can help you better !

Best of luck.



cdina replied. i dont understand?are you the girl or are you the father of the boy?