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Joint Family:another family problem
2004-12-30
Name: nikky



Hi I'm new here.I'm happily married for 6 years.at the time of my marriage my SIL got devorced after 1 year of her marriage.Initially behaviour of my MIL was pretty ok but after some time she took my SIL's favor in every matter.my MIL wants my husband to obey her every order.After 1 yr of my marriage we went 2 us for 4 yrs .there we were pretty happy and got our first kid there.but when we came back 2 india I noticed some atrange behaviour of my SIL ,she alway got stick to my husband, wherever we go she wants to go , she fingers in my husban's hair
try to sit next to him , comes in our bedroom without knock, changes her clothes without bolted her room like this.these things disturbed me alot.and my MIL wants me to do and give everything to her just because she doesn't have husband and once she requested me to give my next baby to SIL.In other way my MIL doesn't want my SIL to get remarried.she never shows this.my in laws never look a man for my devorcee sil.and my husband is the only son of his parents.I'm not even in talking terms with my sil as my inlaws always talk to their son only.whenever they have to talk something imp or financially they talk in seprate room.My MIL has given all the control of her home to my SIL.My husband and I live sepratelly though but my MIL wants our money to purchase a new home for her.eventhough my husband loves me but he loves his sister also.He aked if something goes wrong to my FIL will I accept to allow my MIL and SIL to live with us although my SIL is working woman.no one is willing to try my SIL to get married again please help me..give your valueable suggestions
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a)Please speak to your husband about getting your SIL re-married .
B) Ask your husband to speak to his parents about getting SIL married.
C)Suggest some good matches for her or put News paper advertisement .
Second marriages are so common nowdays plus she is working girl . She will get a good match. It is better that SIL settles down . It is your husbands responsibilty to settle his sister also so ask him to take initiative . If he loves her he must settle her . It is better for her , for you and even for your inlaws to get her married again .
good luck
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