sonu, ur insecurities are becoming hurdles to win ur husabands heart .... u have to come up with all ur negative thoughts and trust ur husband .... he will definitely trust u, believe in all ur talks and will love u too in return .... dnt think abt. future, u never know wht will happen so live today .... by worrying abt. future u are spoiling ur present ..... after reading ur messges i felt that ur husband is not bad, he is short tempered etc. bt we have to accept it, u r not handling situation properly ... stay calm, now u r preg. so u hve one more chance to win ur husabnds heart ... completely stop talking abt. IL' s jst enquire abt. Their health .... he will also feel good if u dnt get disturb or crib .... u know my husabnd also gets annoyed when he sees me tensed or frustrated abt. such topics so i always show my happy face to him and he is happy in return ... wht else v want .... y spoil our relations for some one else ...... very first thing u want is to stay calm, and stop thinking abt. IL' s b happy with urself ... i think this itself will solve most of ur prob' s ...
about expressing Love …. Sonu, every person is different dnt expect from him …. I think most boys are like this, initially they feel its immature to say I love u …. He said na, that see from my actions then see that …. My husband also never like even if I would tell him or messge him ILU … at times he use to say y r u sending such message I dnt hve time, u disturb me et.c etc. etc. ….. then I stopped … then one day when he was in good mood I told him that u love me as the way u want n let me love u the way I want …. n I still say LU n messg at times not always otherwise he will not know the importance of it … my husands expression of love was also very harsh … so jst tell ur husband if something hurts u otherwise accept his way and njoy that … wht v feel harsh they don’t and wht we feel romantic they feel silly .. this is the fact of life :)
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sonu, ur insecurities are becoming hurdles to win ur husabands heart .... u have to come up with all ur negative thoughts and trust ur husband .... he will definitely trust u, believe in all ur talks and will love u too in return .... dnt think abt. future, u never know wht will happen so live today .... by worrying abt. future u are spoiling ur present ..... after reading ur messges i felt that ur husband is not bad, he is short tempered etc. bt we have to accept it, u r not handling situation properly ... stay calm, now u r preg. so u hve one more chance to win ur husabnds heart ... completely stop talking abt. IL' s jst enquire abt. Their health .... he will also feel good if u dnt get disturb or crib .... u know my husabnd also gets annoyed when he sees me tensed or frustrated abt. such topics so i always show my happy face to him and he is happy in return ... wht else v want .... y spoil our relations for some one else ...... very first thing u want is to stay calm, and stop thinking abt. IL' s b happy with urself ... i think this itself will solve most of ur prob' s ...
about expressing Love …. Sonu, every person is different dnt expect from him …. I think most boys are like this, initially they feel its immature to say I love u …. He said na, that see from my actions then see that …. My husband also never like even if I would tell him or messge him ILU … at times he use to say y r u sending such message I dnt hve time, u disturb me et.c etc. etc. ….. then I stopped … then one day when he was in good mood I told him that u love me as the way u want n let me love u the way I want …. n I still say LU n messg at times not always otherwise he will not know the importance of it … my husands expression of love was also very harsh … so jst tell ur husband if something hurts u otherwise accept his way and njoy that … wht v feel harsh they don’t and wht we feel romantic they feel silly .. this is the fact of life :)
sonu replied. Waht u expected about me and what u advised me is really calming and just I felt my mother wrote it...
Weekly once my mom reapeat me exactly the same words and sentences... As she has known everything about what I faced , She understand insecurities well.(though u didnt know in detail, as a peer,u got my situations well) Infact, mom too sometimes loose trust in him when I' m totally down.But after an hour,she give me call and she repeat same senteces.
Yes, he assured me of this. but unable to trust him. he overact with his mom and whatever she tells ,he believe in total (Now, not about me) ...and sympothise them. So, have insecuruties one day again he start listening even about me.
so it might be hard for me to gain trust over him.
He changed in many things...He has many positives too..
He used to hate my parents for what MIL told about them. Now he has changed and like them and love spending in my home.When they come he shows toomuch care than me and prepare guest room acc to tempuratures.And get sweets for father because he love them(dad visit us weekly once).
Be friendly to all of my cousins and friends.
Never say no If i want to buy something
Dont even chew betelnut powder.
Jovial person who talks spantaneous and I love his teasing way manytimes.Always make me laugh when in good mood.
never n' joy himself with friends without me and baby.
He is a super good father that my girl is lucky enough to get such caring and pampering.
His aggressive nature is only problem but he is very capable of doing any kind of things without any help. He is really good task master that help me in household chores.
still, some doubts taunt me.
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Name: sonu Subject: thank you!
Waht u expected about me and what u advised me is really calming and just I felt my mother wrote it...
Weekly once my mom reapeat me exactly the same words and sentences... As she has known everything about what I faced , She understand insecurities well.(though u didnt know in detail, as a peer,u got my situations well) Infact, mom too sometimes loose trust in him when I' m totally down.But after an hour,she give me call and she repeat same senteces.
Yes, he assured me of this. but unable to trust him. he overact with his mom and whatever she tells ,he believe in total (Now, not about me) ...and sympothise them. So, have insecuruties one day again he start listening even about me.
so it might be hard for me to gain trust over him.
He changed in many things...He has many positives too..
He used to hate my parents for what MIL told about them. Now he has changed and like them and love spending in my home.When they come he shows toomuch care than me and prepare guest room acc to tempuratures.And get sweets for father because he love them(dad visit us weekly once).
Be friendly to all of my cousins and friends.
Never say no If i want to buy something
Dont even chew betelnut powder.
Jovial person who talks spantaneous and I love his teasing way manytimes.Always make me laugh when in good mood.
never n' joy himself with friends without me and baby.
He is a super good father that my girl is lucky enough to get such caring and pampering.
His aggressive nature is only problem but he is very capable of doing any kind of things without any help. He is really good task master that help me in household chores.
still, some doubts taunt me.
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