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Friends,

CAn u Please honestly share how much happy u r with ur hubby?

And how do u rate ur happiness if graded 1 to 10 (assume 10 as \" VERY very HAPPY\" ).

Let' s share how many of us are content enough with her man(HUSBAND) in life ?

How many are never repented for being in this marriage??

How much content we are with lives our lives after hubby came in???

Pl answer these while describing both of ur NEGATIVES and DISSATISFACTION! (later , in another discussion ,we can discuss about positives...Lets stop here with negatives!)


First,Lets share mine !


I rate it as 5. (Lets assume 5 shows ' not bad' relation)
My hubby is little egotic and believe in not bending to wife (I assume) . He is short tempered and gets irritated easily ...and shouts at me which makes me whole day DOWN ...and It happens often. never appraise my efforts but always there to make me down when things r not upto his wish.

Ok, this is about him!
Little About me ----I think I' m little dreamy girl at times, So expect always to maintain a peaceful and lovely atmosphere in home, SO cant be practical to accept the bitter truth...angers and romance r part of life...So cant accept his particular negative thing of being short tempered.So gets easily upset and keep scolding my badluck for getting married with an opposite natured person. I' m very cool and quite ...I never hurt ppl. But he nevr look for other ppl ' s feelings. He just express his frustration even when we r in public places.He even express a strange feeling at poor salesman if he is unable to bill the things faster in any mall.. He shows unnecessary frustration if any queue is large and need time to get what we want ....I hate this. I always wanted cool gentle man...but he is reverse. So, In this regard I' m unhappy with him.

He is unhappy because I dont do things in perfect way he want. He think I dont put 100efforts in what I do. But I know, I do atmost I can. So he is dissatisfied and feel I' m misfit for him. When he express it, I feel he' s a mismatch for me.


He dont want to sit and discuss this problem because he shows a deaf ear...and he just lead life how he want it to be...but not in the way I want...so delicate relation, I feel!

If I behave reluctant, he too be the same and never appraoch me to make things settle...He juts plays and plays with baby while making her engaged that she wont need me too.So I feel I' m more intrested than him in being lovely pair. He seems to be never mind whether I show intrest in him or not. He just cares whether his needs fulfilled in his way or not.

So I rated it as 5 ! .


So what are ur thoughts on it? Share whatever touch ur mind .


So this is my relation.Sometimes sweet Sometimes Sour..Sometimes Hot....To say frank...not verymuch happy with life.mechanical ...never respect my wishes like outings...rarely once in 3months.

Hope everyone tell about their relation ?!!


sonu replied. Hi friends,

I' m really happy u liked this thread and ofcourse, I love u all r positive angels!
Accept and love ' him' such that we dont find it as negative. Thank you friends! Anyways ,I wanted to start positives thread too, BUT , do we need it now??? :) Most of you are just Poured out those positives without caring any negatives ...Its nice...Let us SOOON n' joy having reading all the positives too :))!
Namita replied. ok girls vl check that

Dd .... good that u r also happy in ur marriage ... bt i hve still some prob' s of MIL interference.. jst yest. we had a fight (it was one sided, only she was speaking) heheheh ..... i m scare that i vl loose my DH once again bcoz of her constant presure to behave in certain way, i mean it Namtia replied. gg,

y didnt u participate?

where are others, come on b sportive :)

Namita replied. If you would have asked this question a year and half before then my ans. would have been 4-5, but today i can grade him 10+.

The reason for 10+ is he have controlled his anger and changed his nature of getting irritated on every small thing.

Today my DH is very very very understnading, infact today he knows when i m down, nervous and most of the times he also knows the reason for it (even if i dnt tell him) .... whereas i shud agree that though i say i love him a lot, this is the difference, at times i cant find out the reason why he feels down

He is always ready to listen to me and to all my talks ... evn if it is a silly talk but till today in last 1 1/2 yr. i hve never heard him saying that u talk rubbish or silly things ... at times i ask him \" dnt u get bored with my talks?\" hehehehe

He always try to make me comfortable wherever we go (ofcourse at his relatives etc.) ... he will try his best to keep me happy

I m proud that he stands with me when i m in trouble (personal/official)

Lots of things abt. him .... We love each other ..... I m glad that the bitter part of my life have gone, i have faced many problems those days, my life was miserable .... bt today i m happpy (i have paid for it and i can undrstnd the rough time) and i give all the credit to my Hubby

May God shower His best blessing on us and may we live happily forever Srey replied. My husband....

He' s smart, Honest, caring, sensitive, good looking, well-mannered, Funny, strong, his wonderful smile, his se*y voice, understanding, respectful, and etc...My list are endless.

When I am down, he tend to have his ways of letting me know, that everything will be fine.

His simple kiss on my forehead, right before he goes to work. His caring text message to see if I am safe and okay at work or after work.

His, gentle massages when I am stress. His patience in the ER room when I was so sick one time.

To be honest, I am so happy and blessed that I found him. Actually he found me...but, If I was to rate my marriage, it will have to be a 10+. Srey replied. Wow, I love boards like these. Honestly, it just a way for us(Women) to speak our minds out!! :D

gigi replied. mine is 5 as well.... reasons are many... and one reason i can mention is that i m still not settled in my career and the reason is marriage, it was my dream since childhood.