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Waiting to try:Should or shouldnt
2004-03-17
Name: tina



im 21 i got married this jan after a lot of misconception and horride views from other ppl im confused im studying inna university and we wont be planning baby for like 2 more yrs when we have sex we dont use any pill or condom when my husband feels hes about to eject he takes it out and ejects is this ok ?? will i get preg ?? i dont want to use any pill or condoms .. what other way apart from these i can prevent being preg.
1 more quest elders say its better to have the first child as soon as poosible will waitin 2 yrz effect me being preg later ??
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2004-03-18
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Anonymous Name: Archie
Subject:  Talk to Dr.



Hi Tina,
You are referring to \";Withdrwal method\"; to protect from getting pregnant. The method has been shown to be a big failure. I know some of them who got pregnant with this method.
Another method is Calender method (knowing your fertile days) but each month using OPK are horrendously expensive and sometime ovulation pattern change that's why even calender method has been of a great failure.

Only method I know are BCP or Condom. You can use Patch, talk to Dr. about this.

Waiting 2 years when you are in early 20s should not be a problem. True that first one can be difficult but not in every case. If one has first one without problem does not mean second comes along just like that. I know some who had first as a surprise and struggle for second.

About BC you really need to talk to Dr. Simplest is Condom which you don't want to opt.

Enjoy married life.
Archie
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