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Womens Issues:Please help.My illness becoming cause of divorce
2007-10-18
Name: Suicidal



Please advise........I' m afraid my husband will divorce me because of following reasons:?

1. I' m an Indian Hindu girl married for one & a half years now.One year after marriage,due to certain reasons,I developed diabetes.

2. Also because of certain health reasons,I' m unable to conceive.But this problem was not detected even 1 month before marriage as all my test reports were normal at that time & I had full potential to bear kids.

My husband,his parents & relatives are extremely frustrated as I have developed diabetes & infertility immediately after marriage & also unable to conceive,& think my parents cheated them,although all my medical test reports just 1 month before marriage were totally normal.Still they accuse us of cheating them.Therefore they also keep forcing my family to treat me & pay for my expenses,without realizing my father is nearing retirement, while my husband doesn' t want to contribute at all.

So can my husband ask for a divorce on grounds of \" cheating\" which never happened.?Please reply.
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2007-11-30
#1
Anonymous Name: nits
Subject:  I feelso sorry..



I am really saddened by your situation.
Do you really want to stay married to a person like this, who would leave you in illness?
Please get of of this relationship....
this person has defied the whole meaning of marriage.
About the legal issues, you better consult a lawyer.

All the best in life friend..my heart really goes out for you..
Take care
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2007-11-29
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Anonymous Name: Chandra
Subject:  unbelievable



get out now. you dont need them treating you this way....truly unbelievable!
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2007-11-16
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Anonymous Name: Namita
Subject:  disgusting



y r u waiting for him to ask for divorce? You go ahead and file a divorse and sue him for behaving in such manner .... grow up otherwise this people will harrase you and ur parents .. stop this atleast for ur parents
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2007-11-05
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Anonymous Name: me
Subject:  diabetes



Hi,
REally sorry to hear about you mean and inconsiderate inlaws.
Having Diabetes does not mean that everything is over.Exercise regularly,follow a low carb,low sugar diet,check you blood sugar regualarly and take care of your health.And its not that you will not be able to conceive .....you will surely....
Please educate you hubby and inlaws regarding diabetes.Get an appointment with a good ENDOCRINOLOGIST regarding diabetes.
Please check out the website soulcysters.......where you will find many women with similar probs who have got pregnant.
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2007-11-02
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Anonymous Name: nids
Subject:  more than marriage



HI

Look ahead and start your life again ... life is much more than marriage and if he cannot take care of you now what is the garranty he will take of you tomorrow.
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