Relationships  Discussion Forum

Hi All,

I got married in 2004 and we had a baby immediately. He will turn 3 next month. I am feeling to have a 2nd chance. I am mentally and physically prepared for it, but my hubby is not all for it. He says no, whenever i talk abt it with him. Actually I had few minor problems during the first pregnancy, and when i asked abt 2nd one, he said that he does not want me to go through all that pain again, if at all it happens...he says, we will do everything for one only... but i tried to tell him all the major points, like sharing, caring, emotinal attachments with the younger one...academics etc... he just says...lets see, lets see....n othing else...

I really feel that my son should have a sis/bro, with whom he can spend hours of happy childhood... I had 2 sisters, , and even my hubby has a younger bro...so actualy we both know how it feels to have someone so close... but i dont understand why he is saying No for another one.....he says, he is very confident about me and knows that i can handle and look after the kids very nicely.

what should be the right gap between the 1st and 2nd child? How should i convince my hubby for the 2nd one. gg replied. ideally 3 years ..but minimum there should be gap of 18 months btwn 2 babies atleast...
same here my husband doenst want 2 baby i despereately want my baby is 13 mthsn ,,,i may sound crazy but the way he keeps telling me he wants one ..one n one ...this has put it in my mind i want to have baby...
i think its important to have 2 babies this is my perosnal opinion ....
same prob with my sil and my best friend...i dont know whats wrong with this new generation crazy..i think we should stop them coming near to us until n unless they gv us baby...lol