I Lost my baby boy in Aug .I feel i am alone don't like to leave in this world..I am always thinking about him .His face is in my eyes all the time..I am in US .I feel all alone all the time.how should i forget him? But i never forget him till my death! But all my friends have the baby at the same time .I feel why god don't like me ..why he taken my son?? K.Radha replied. My Dear,

Your grief is still very raw but there will come a time when you will hurt less... Less often. Right now your life might seem to be filled with sadness and emptiness without your darling son but slowly I promise you will build a happy life around the memories of your son. You don't have to forget your baby but you do have to go on living every day for him. Everyone here has walked in your shoes, we've all traveled the long way back to happiness and we know that our babies live on through us and the lives we lead after they leave our sides.

It helps to remember that we're never ever alone after that. It's true we might not be able to see them but our children are right there... With us. I am sure if you think about it there will be times you think you've felt your son quite close, knowing that this could not be the case you might have forgotten the incident. And God, do not hate him... God did not take your child yet God does keep your son safe until you can be reunited. And you will be,have a little faith.

What God did is give you a special power. The power to see a child that others might never see. The ability to know a child others will never know. You've learnt how powerful love is and you'll never be careless with it again. You're a better person for your loss, your son has brought out the best in you. You are a better wife, better mother, aunt, sister, daughter, neighbour and friend. And now when you find yourself thinking all hope is lost I am going to ask you to remember today when others were not afraid to share your pain, remember the friends you've never met who have learnt the same harsh lesson as you, don't forget that when you most need it someone will be here with a reply that will help remind you why you have to keep smiling... All the best now & always
Kate