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hi all

Recently parted from my husband.Feeling terrible and painful.Can someone give some suggestions.Forgetting him seems impossible.I tend to think about him and cry often.Plz help. Ananymous replied. hi

Thank you all.It' s nice to be consoled by some one.This board is a wonderful place and has helped me so much.

I am 23 yrs old & been married for 2 years.Haven' t been legally seperated.But soon will be.I am trying to stabilize myself economically so in the process of job searching.Don' t have kids.Thanks for all ur support singleMother replied. Hi Anom,
I can very well understand your pain as I have gone through the same. When a relationship is broken it pains a lot and the feeling of depression and lonliness comes. My prayers are with you and may god give you the strength to bear this.
If you really want to get over this and forget about him my advice is not to think much about your married life. It may sound harsh but remember the bad things that happened in your relationship which causes this break up. You can never get over this seperation if you keep on remembering the good times with him.
Be little selfish and think about yourself alone. Do you have any kids, if so spend more and more time with them and go out. Change your wardrobe, your hairstyle. Join some yoga classes if you can. It would give you inner strength.
Never curse yourself for whatever happened. Some people has this in their destiny so lets accept it.
Your life is precious for you and your loved ones so why waste it crying over a relationship which didn' t last long.
If you feel like write more.
People in this board are very caring and would suerly help you.
baby replied. Dear Anon,

Your pain in understandable. You need to share/speak/open up yourself to an audiance without risking your privacy and safety.

This board is an ok place for the purpose. How old are you? How many years did your marriage last, are you legaly separated or divorce proceedings are complete? Do you have children? What had gone wrong so badly in your relationship?

Share with us, let us deal with facts leading to your pain...

Please also engage yourself in some reading on the subject of how to cope when marriage has ended. Please do some net search and also lok into book stores near yourself.

Take care, be strong and do get back. helppriya replied. I know it is tough to forget someone who has been so close to u but try meditating, doing some exercises, makefriends, have family around etc. I hope this helps,

Best of luck!