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2004-03-01

Name: rachel i am trying to concieve since past 3 months;but i am confused & worried about a thing that after intercourse with my husband i lay on my back with pillow under my buttocks for atleast 15-20 mins.;but then also when i get up a little amount comes out,i want to know is this normal with everybody,i am worried,can anyone help me.

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2004-03-03

Name: Leighanna
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it is normal

The fluid that comes out is the ejaculate. That is the fluid that accompanies the sperm when they first inter the vagina, and it is normal for that to exit when you stand since it has already served it's use. I hope this helps you. Dont worry about it, it is completely normal! have a great day!

2004-03-02

Name: smile
Subject:

hi..

HI guys,
Just want to make one thing clear... It is said that all this lying in the bed after intercourse for 20 mins is not at all necessary. The sperm can travels inside within a couple of mins after having intercourse. It is not necessary to lie down for 30 mins or keep a pillow under ur butt after intercourse. Whatever is coming out r not sperms. It is the fluid that is coming out. If u want u can lie down as long as possible that is for ur satisfaction. Just don't stress ur self. Best wishes....

2004-03-01

Name: Archie
Subject:

Hi Rachel

Hi Rachel,
Try following. You can have pillows below your thigh so that your legs are little upright. You can lay for about 30-45 minutes. Pillows below butthocks should be OK but holding legs up (not too much) for a while can help swiming sperms.
Bed every other day, not necessarily every day.
If you tell your cycle length it will be easy to help on dates as well.

You can use Ovulation Prediction Kits, they work beautifully.

Should you need help please approach.
And importnat 3 month is not long time, don't worry until 1 year, a healthy couple can take as much as 1 year or 2 sometimes.
Good luck
Archie

2004-03-01

Name: rachel
Subject:

thanks

hi archie,
thanks for the instant reply,i do exactly as what u have suggested,but then also a very little amount comes out & that too is not as thick as semen,it is like white discharge.i want to know that is this normal?

2004-03-01

Name: mini
Subject:

query....

Hi Archie,
My query is same as that of Rachel.After intercourse i also lie down on my back with pillows below the buttocks for almost 30mins but still the semen does flow out when I get up.Is this normal?And what is the cost of an ovulation predictor kit?Please help me.thanks.

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