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Hi All,

We both are married since last 3 years and have a 2 years old daughter. My problem is that my Husband' s attitude towards me has changed after my delivery. We do not have any prblems with the girl child, infact we are the most happiest couple to have a sweet daughter!

He has started losing interest in me, and spends lots of time in office. I understand his workload and all but whenever he has an off, say on weekends, even those days, he keeps himself busy in some or other things... may it be some outside / bank erlated work or so.... i remember that he said once, thatmy breasts have started sagging, which he does not like, but he also said that never mind, i still love you...

would this be the reason, behind his change? i had asked him about this, and he just says no to everything... is there anything, which could hlep me in firming my breasts...its all after delivery this has happened... i am really feeling sad about it....

pls help mama replied. do not worry. these hubs r the same from the begining of the relationship. its only that we did not have time to see that because the first year your busy with the pregnancy... doc visits etc, second year onwards its just the child raising... you just did not have time to know that your hus was like this. now you have a little time extra to look out into other matters arround you... that you notice these things....do not worry a lot. you can look out for a job if your a homemaker or look ito your lost hobbies,read lots of books, contact your old friends.... this gives a lot of energy to keep you going..be happy with your child... you just do your duty as a wife for your husb... no loose talks etc... give it some time.... he will understand that something is going wrong within you...then initiate a talk about it when he starts the topic... laxmi replied. That must be ur assumption that he is not interested in you..poor guy must be busy with work..Go to gym..u body(breast ) will be fit and breast shape will be back