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hello all-i am frm hyderabad-married for the past 2 yrs. we both are divorcess and this is our second marriage.e i am facing a very peculiar problem. my husband is not interested in sex at all. he is nt interested in a family life at all. immediately after marriage he went abroad alone for job commitments and returned after 6 mths. his behaviour in bed was shocking to me at that time. slowly i cam to terms and we consulted a sexologist. since my husband in a known diabetic, he doc is saying that ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION problem is there and some medicines has been prescribed. but in spite of the medicines, he is just not having the inclination to have sex with me. to be frank, till date our marriage has not been consumated. i dont knw how to handle this. i am 35 years old and he 36. i desperately love to hve kids. ihve aged parents-70+-and i am nt in a position to share this problem with them.how should i go about this. can anyone help me pls Ranga replied. here you need to be clear whether you want to have children through sex or just have childrens? Having childrens you can try IVF method or adoption. So it is better to understand what exactly you need.. pooja replied. hey lalitha if you are willing to have children would suggest you to go for ivf or even adoption is a good option. you can choose according to your convenience. you can even ask your doctor to suggest for a proper solution in this. AP replied. I would suggest you to visit a donor bank centre and they should be able to help you. They have a policy to keep you identity secret and they will have the tested sperms for you.

All the best. vinay replied. i can solve ur problem
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shashank replied. i will too help Arunabha replied. If your husband´ s sperm is not fertile neough to get you pregnant you can contact me and I can donate. You can get the same checked at any of the sperm donor clinics in Banaglore and then proceed. Other wise you can also reach me Keshava replied. It seems there is a serious problem with your husband even after consuming medicines he is not active in sex. My sincere suggestion is give him the Ranbaxy Caverta 100 mg of one tablet before half hr of having sex and make him to watch all the bf movies automatically he will be interested and he will be active for 1 hr continously. The second best option is go to a doctor and tell the doctor to prescribe for semen bank to inseminate artificially. Sperm banks are there for this purpose they will provide you with the sperm or they will collect the sperm from your husband and in his absense you can take back the sperm to the doctor and they will process the sperm and you will become pregnant or if u are not getting any sperm from your husband or anywhere, contact me nine four eight zero one eight four one one seven. I can provide you my sperm and help you to become a successfull mother. You can take my sperm and show it doctor to test it fully and then you can use it in your vagina. This has to be done for 3 months or 6 months continuously. It will give very good result. If you are not sexually satisfied with your husband if u want to enjoy sex that is also fine with me i can come over to your place and we can enjoy .

As a friend i have given you the suggestion, if not interested you can ignore the last part that is having sex with me.

Best of luck.

Alex replied. may be something had happend in his past marital life which make him adverse to sex. Consultant a good marital counciler which can sole this.