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Hi All,

I have a wired problem. My life seems to be really good. I have a 10 months old son and live in a joint family with my husband, mil, bil and his wife. All of them are really good. We have a good understanding between all of us. Yet most of the time I feel lonely. I feel that my mil prefers my co-sis more than me. And I also feel that my husband wants to spend more time with them than with me and the kid.

I really dont know why this is hapening to me? I mean when everything seems fine, I start getting depressed. And i get all these thoughts in my head and then I get angry and start an argument with my husband. And then everything is spoilt. The mood, the atmosphere at home. Then I feel bad and sulk about it. I cant seem to control my temper at all.

Friends please help me understand why all this is happening? I dont want to get angry but it so happens that i realise it after the anger subsides.... Friends I need help... Please please help me.
TP replied. Hi there

I had a same problem after my delivery. I think because of now your life get change after having kid, you need more emotional support from everybody specially from your hubby.

talk to him whatever you feel like and ask him to help you during this condition and always think good stuff for people you are living with, It will help you a lot.

Good luck and cheer up.
sss replied. dear friend,
please dont worry,you are not alone.i also start a fight with my hubby for no reasons and later regrt it.i think we women think so much unnecessary things and brings out issues.we have to try and overcome this habit.see our husbands,they are always thinking about their career,future of the family and all.so try to bring positive attitude in you.your concern right now should be your baby and your hubby.take care of both of them and leave the rest.all the best. someone replied. as long as your husband also prefers your Cosister' s company mroe than yours..then you are fine...
Sorry about the cruel joke!...
I think it is just that you are experiencing new mom' s tiredness, lack of sex etc., which is making you irritated..Hang in there, things will improve...dont fight with your husband ..poor thing..he might be more irritated in life than you..take care