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I am married for 14 years now.i have a sil who is a divorcee and at this point of time not planning to get married again.My Mil wants me to have a baby (i already have 2 childern )and give it to my sil.My sil and i dont share a very good relationship.Infact we just cant stand each other.
I am not having another baby ( am happy with my 2 kids ) and definately not going to give it to anyone and of all the people my sil who doesnot get along with anyone.According to my mil it is alright to give my baby to her.I was so shocked and angry with her.How dare they even think about it.isnt it expecting too much from you ? ameera replied. would m'inlaw tell her daughter the same if she were in your place ? easier said to a d'inlaw . would m'inlaw give her kid away ? d'inlaw is supposed to be a scape goat .unfortunately she became your m'inlaw all you can do is say strongly no. what's was your husband's reaction ? bona&me replied. hi!
pls for god`s sake do not even think of giving your own flesh and blood to someone else (not even someone in the family).
do not succumb to family pressures no matter what. Shayu replied. Hi Sneha! It has been long since I have heard about u..tell me what is happening with you???
Take Care..and Keep Smiling no matter what....Shayu. nicemom replied. hi sneha,
no way, if you don't want to have a baby for your sil, just don't i think your mil is asking for too much. i would atleast consider if you had a good relation with your sil,but if you say thats not good, then why shld you have a baby and give it up. just put your foot down and don't bother about what your mil says. Shayu replied. Hi! Ya,it is indeed shockin in todays times to expect this from someone, I totally disagree in this regards to have a baby for your sil, I think the emotions are having to do too much with the act of giving up ur own baby to someone who u cant trust on as in who cannot take good care of her espc for ur sil, whom u cannot stand. Ur feelings of anger are totally justified, so just stick to what u have decided and yes this is expecting too much..