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Hello: I am sure lot of you folks in US are trading this thin line about living in US versus returning to India.
I would like to know your opinons about returning back to India after say 10 yrs in US and then going back to stay with mil,sils etc..

Look forward to your response..

cheers,
Abhay
nupur replied. hi abhay,
we have been in us for 4 years . have got babies there . returned to india because of our own business but it was very very difficult for the kids to adjust here in india. they got sick cont. still we are facing much problem after even 1 year.
children don't have resistance to fight with the polluted environment like india

def. schooling is much better but even than family wise its much better in us . its very esy to enjoy ,rest is your choice . all the best shilpy replied. I returned to India after 18 years in the UK. U are correct it all depends on what u are looking forward to in life. Dont get me wrong, its still tough sometimes after 10 years of being here!!!! Neha replied. Abhay - I think \";visiting\"; for a couple of weeks / months is still different than actually mentally getting ready to make India your final destination. Yes, I love it too when i visit India for a few weeks. Infact, I miss India if i dont visit it every year or two. Education also no doubt is better. I believe we have more intelligence in India than in US, we just lack in the resources. In any case, i have to agree with vaishali, cleanliness and dollars are the ones that make you want to come back to US (not to forget the crowded trains, pollution, travelling time, sweat, humidity, dishonesty etc etc) Then again, its a matter of personal choices.
Good luck with whatever you decide. vaishali replied. Hi I would say it's very difficult to return back to india after living in the states for so long. You start looking at india in a differnt perceptive after living here. Things like healthcare, poverty, cleanliness, benefits, jobs, education.... Standard of living is totally different there and here. After ten years you'll want to go and visit family of course but not move back there.