Hi everyone out there.I am in real mess. Please help me. I am trying to conceive for the the last 8 months but with no results. I have few queries . 1)During sex which is the best position to conceive. Does position really matters. My husband likes me to be on top.Can I conceive doing sex like this.
2)What is the utility of folic acid in conceiving.How best we can get it.
3)My periods were regularand I had a cycle of 28/30 days but for the last three months I am having a cycle of 35/38 days.why is it like this?
Someone out there answer me and please clear my doubts as Iam really desperate and frustrated.
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Hi everyone out there.I am in real mess. Please help me. I am trying to conceive for the the last 8 months but with no results. I have few queries . 1)During sex which is the best position to conceive. Does position really matters. My husband likes me to be on top.Can I conceive doing sex like this.
2)What is the utility of folic acid in conceiving.How best we can get it.
3)My periods were regularand I had a cycle of 28/30 days but for the last three months I am having a cycle of 35/38 days.why is it like this?
Someone out there answer me and please clear my doubts as Iam really desperate and frustrated.
kalpana replied. Hi JoJo,
First of all stop thinking that u are in a mess..Everything is perfectly alright with you.You had written that ur husbend wants u on top of him..Sorry this is a very bad position for conception.Best positions are
Man on top,Doggy position(from behind,wherein penis is at the nearest point to cervix/uterus so conception is easier),Put your legs on top after he ejaculates as this will help sperm to swim faster and need not fight gravity.First of all start enjoying sex in it's mood and not for the heck of it.
Next Folic Acid is a Vitamin B supplement which is taken immedately after you start trying to get pregnant as this is important for the formation of the central nervous system of the child as this happens even before u realise u are pregnant.So go to ur nearest Pharmacy and start immediately with one tablet (400 mcg) of Folic Acid every day.
As regards your cycle of 35 days nothing would be wrong with your cycle as long as you are ovulating(it happens between 12 to 16 days before ur period starts.Say your last periods was on the 36th day it means that you have ovulated somewhere between 24th day till 30th day.So dont give up or dont get disturbed everything is absolutely fine with you.
If I can give you an example and piece of advice to all who are trying to conceive- There are lot of Lower class families who live in slums,platforms or small huts in our country...Guess how many children each couple have,on an average each have 3 children.First of all they dont have a private place to have sex,they dont put their legs up after sex or precisely no fundas...still they manage to lead a fertile life how??? because they enjoy sex without any worries for even if they are thrown out of platforms tommorrow they dont know where they will be...
So this is the secret..so do not worry about anything as long as you and husband are leading a healthy life style.Pray God sincerely as this will give some hope and peace for you.Try visiting a gynaec sometime to guide you further.
Best Regards,
Kalpana.
jojo replied. Hi may and smile,
Thanks for your instant replies. As for me I have decided to wait for another 2/3 months and try our luck. The thought of not having a baby really pricks you. Its not easy to get out of that thought. Especially when you see preg ladies all around. People who decided to have babies after me are preg now. I feel jealous seeing them in my office and at the neighbourhood. Somehow I feel very inferior to them. I have no idea how will I get out of this. I have another query . I have put on weight after my marriage. And now I am planing to join gym. Can joining gym will interfere in my conceiving. Does overweight ladies don't conceive.
To juvenile-Hi, Even I did't think that getting pg is so difficult. I just hope luck will favour us soo and stop this waiting game. When I see my mc coming every I feel very frustrated and mood is the worst during those days. Take care and baby dust to you.
Jojo
may replied. Dear,
I can totally understand,but please don't stress urself as stress also plays a key role,don't think about it much keep urself busy.
First yes ur hubby on top is good and best method to conceive,try keeping pillow under ur butt and ur legs up for few min don't get up immediately.
Folic acid is good if ur planning to have a baby,prenatal is the tablet which contains folic acid,it will make ur utreaus strong for babys growth and also for baby's development,and growth,u should take one tablet a day.
Periods will change due to harmonel imbalance since ur having regular periods don't worry but u can always visit doc for best advice.
Try doing on 14th day before ur period starts,it is before ur period calculate backward,from the day before ur period starts, ie the day when u ovalate u can know when ur ovalating,u will have white like egg discharge,thats the day u ovulate so try to do it then,avoid doing before u ovalate,chances of conceiving will be more.
All the best,
hope this may help u,
take care,
2004-01-17
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Name: kalpana Subject: God be with you
Hi JoJo,
First of all stop thinking that u are in a mess..Everything is perfectly alright with you.You had written that ur husbend wants u on top of him..Sorry this is a very bad position for conception.Best positions are
Man on top,Doggy position(from behind,wherein penis is at the nearest point to cervix/uterus so conception is easier),Put your legs on top after he ejaculates as this will help sperm to swim faster and need not fight gravity.First of all start enjoying sex in it's mood and not for the heck of it.
Next Folic Acid is a Vitamin B supplement which is taken immedately after you start trying to get pregnant as this is important for the formation of the central nervous system of the child as this happens even before u realise u are pregnant.So go to ur nearest Pharmacy and start immediately with one tablet (400 mcg) of Folic Acid every day.
As regards your cycle of 35 days nothing would be wrong with your cycle as long as you are ovulating(it happens between 12 to 16 days before ur period starts.Say your last periods was on the 36th day it means that you have ovulated somewhere between 24th day till 30th day.So dont give up or dont get disturbed everything is absolutely fine with you.
If I can give you an example and piece of advice to all who are trying to conceive- There are lot of Lower class families who live in slums,platforms or small huts in our country...Guess how many children each couple have,on an average each have 3 children.First of all they dont have a private place to have sex,they dont put their legs up after sex or precisely no fundas...still they manage to lead a fertile life how??? because they enjoy sex without any worries for even if they are thrown out of platforms tommorrow they dont know where they will be...
So this is the secret..so do not worry about anything as long as you and husband are leading a healthy life style.Pray God sincerely as this will give some hope and peace for you.Try visiting a gynaec sometime to guide you further.
Best Regards,
Kalpana.
2003-12-17
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Name: jojo Subject: Thanks
Hi may and smile,
Thanks for your instant replies. As for me I have decided to wait for another 2/3 months and try our luck. The thought of not having a baby really pricks you. Its not easy to get out of that thought. Especially when you see preg ladies all around. People who decided to have babies after me are preg now. I feel jealous seeing them in my office and at the neighbourhood. Somehow I feel very inferior to them. I have no idea how will I get out of this. I have another query . I have put on weight after my marriage. And now I am planing to join gym. Can joining gym will interfere in my conceiving. Does overweight ladies don't conceive.
To juvenile-Hi, Even I did't think that getting pg is so difficult. I just hope luck will favour us soo and stop this waiting game. When I see my mc coming every I feel very frustrated and mood is the worst during those days. Take care and baby dust to you.
Jojo
2003-12-18
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Name: smile Subject: hi Jojo
Hello, how r u doing? You know something I am in the same boat. we 've been trying from jul-03 with no luck. I totally agree with you, those who 've started their trials after me have gotten pregnant immediately. Whenever i see pregnant ladies, i feel as though the whole world is pregnant except for me. You know what I went to a fuction last week, there I saw 6 pregnant ladies. Sometimes i get upset with God for making me wait. But from this month we r not thinking about the baby. We didn't try this month. We just had a great time together. I am telling you this month was amazing. Infact we had sex for fun after a long time. otherwise we would have it for getting pregnant. That really puts lot of pressure on both of us. We r trying to stay as calm as possible, we know that definitely our time will come. I have full faith in GOD. He has already decided when to give us. Only thing wanted here is patience. Try to stay calm it is going to happen to all of us one day. My best wishes and I am sending you tons of baby vibes+++++++++
2003-12-16
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Name: may Subject: hi
Dear,
I can totally understand,but please don't stress urself as stress also plays a key role,don't think about it much keep urself busy.
First yes ur hubby on top is good and best method to conceive,try keeping pillow under ur butt and ur legs up for few min don't get up immediately.
Folic acid is good if ur planning to have a baby,prenatal is the tablet which contains folic acid,it will make ur utreaus strong for babys growth and also for baby's development,and growth,u should take one tablet a day.
Periods will change due to harmonel imbalance since ur having regular periods don't worry but u can always visit doc for best advice.
Try doing on 14th day before ur period starts,it is before ur period calculate backward,from the day before ur period starts, ie the day when u ovalate u can know when ur ovalating,u will have white like egg discharge,thats the day u ovulate so try to do it then,avoid doing before u ovalate,chances of conceiving will be more.
All the best,
hope this may help u,
take care,
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