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I think its not only you who face this problem there are many more who have the same problem including me,My problem is little different I am his second wife and its a love marriage before marriage when we were going around we use to have a healthy sex life but suddenly after marriage his disinterest is killing i have discussed it million of times and now i have got use to it. B' coz of these kind of men we womens get attracted to mens and have affairs but they will finally blame that my wife ditch me . The worst part is we cant even discuss this with our parents or friends, we are just trapped in a cage ,we show the world that we are proud to be his wife but interlly we are broken just a toy to dance on his orders.

Life is pathetic

Life is not pathetic, you are pathetic. You don’t have courage to stand up for your mistakes mine is love marriage too but what makes my marriage life better is the communications and understanding we have. Its not that we don’t fight but we always look for solution that blaming everything to each other.

Why can’t you discuss with your parents? I’ll tell you why! because you don’t have guts to hear back from them. You don’t even trust your parents. Parents are always harsh and tell you on your face for your mistake but at the end they will take you in without anything in their mind. Parents are our god. They brought us to this world they have right to do say whatever they feel like. Women like you are always complain that we can’t do anything our life is hell bla bla bla. Stop complaining and stand up for your life. There is not one going to come into your life and solve your problems. You need to do that on your own. Women like you make their self so dependent on their husband that they can’t take a damn decision on their own. Be practical and be independent, you can be a house wife and be independent. Involve yourself in social and professional activities and you are not slave.

I have mentioned this before and telling you right now. Marriage is not all about sex. Before marriage you always have attraction and temptations, once you have sex on daily basis you lose the interest. But if you make it exciting there shouldn’t be any problem. Try new things, new position, and new toys. If it is not working MOVE ON! Or else stop crying and complaining