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Hello everyone,

Its quite shocking and unbelivable but its true.
I am 33 old woman . My hubby has 3 sisters and he is the only brother.
Asusual from past 10 my inlaws ill treated us, cheated us,insulted us ,abused us,did lots of partial behaviour with us and lots of things which are common in all famalies ,but they have done evrything till the ending point of the relationship or you can say till we were litrally said a big NO to take it anymore .Because here now question of survival arised.Cant write all details bcoz everyday of my married life is like a board exams where i worked very hard got good marks but still failed.

I did all \" niswarth sewa\" of my inlaws but now from past year, they are literaly black mailing us ,harrassing us and torturing us.Becoz we denied to take there all this nuinsance anymore.All the time they sends threats to us that fulfill our demands otherwise we will sue you or put you and your wife(my hubby and me)behind the bars in any false case or anything.My Fil has one lawyer friend who suggesst him these tricks
.
They are demanding huge amount from us ,which we cant afford infact we dont have, For allowing us to live in peace.We have already paid so much money to them sold some properties too for fulfill there demands .

I realy dont know what to do i have asked so many social workers
and lots of organisation for help but no one responded.
Dont know what they are getting by torturing us .We cant fulfill there greed for money .And all the money is my hubbys hard earned money .
we have not got single penny form our inlaws .In fact my hubby is paying there few liabilities too .
I dont know why they are doing this if anyone who is of same age of my inlaws pls tell why in this age they became so cruel for there own son who has did lots of hard work and always tried to comfort them.
I feels like killing me, my hubby and my son bcoz this kind of hell i cant take anymore .They are simply unstopable and impossible to please.After giving 10 yrs of our life we are no where.Feeling foolest person on earth.

Pls help me somebody i m realy in big trouble
I m so frustated and depressed .Infact my frds are asking me to consult phsycatric.

I hope i will get some replies and sugesstions from the readers.

vins Ananymous replied. If u r in India file them under dowry act and they will have no idea to think abt harassing you.Keep ur hubby off it.
My policy is when someone says he is going to slap u,do it immediately urself.Tht' s called prevention.
KUNJULAKSHMI replied.
Hi Vini,
If you didn' t inherit or take over any property or anyother wealth on from them, I don' t justify them.

If you took anything from them, they have the right to ask JUSTIFIABLE amount for their day to day living.

IF THEY ASK HUGE SUM SAY NO, NO, ALWAYS.

In India you can find a million Lawers, so don' t worry about FILS Lawer. You DON' T want to jump FIRST for any case or complaint against them.

DEFEND IN EVERYTHING AT PROPER TIME, OTHERWISE YOUR LIFE WILL BE PATHETIC.

Yours loving sister

KUNJU


sweet replied. The One::

Are you trying solve the matter or what? If you cant empathize - then dont comment also. Seems you dont have anything better to do. Watch your words and then use it else no need !!

To Vini ::

You need to elaborate your issue dear. I understand that you are going through a lot. Be strong and be positive- look at the brighter side. Your hubby is there with you. What does he feel about the entire situation?

Why do your in-laws want money? Does your hubby and your inlaws carry a nice relation or not? Hows your frequency with your SIL' s? If you have a fear then ofcourse you can seek NC with the consent of your hubby. Talk to him and if possible consult a good lawyer.

Post back. mini replied. hi vini/..from ur post it is not clear why ur in laws are doing this with their own son and dil that too after 10 yrs of marriage..have u ever tried to question them that for what purpose are they demanding money frm u?? if they are demanding it for their survival i mean as parents take from children in old age then u have to make them clear about ur financial status and that how much u can give them as help...
or are they demanding it for ur sister in laws...whats the reason behind the demand dear??

if they are consulting a lwayer u too can consult a lawyer and take further steps before u get into any problem

all the best r replied. Hi vini,

Could like to know your problem in detail to give you a suggestion but still reading your post you both can to do 1 thing go to your nearest police station and remove a NC on both your names saying that you life is in danger from your inlaws and your hubbys sister.

Do it coz in futute if they try to trap you in some case then you will be in safer side.

Good luck