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Joint Family:In great trouble ,PL. help
2004-06-25
Name: Nandini




I have great trouble from my FIL and MIL. At weekend I want to go out with my husband so to get some break. But my husband insist that they also come(FIL and MIL) with us.

My FIL and MIL behave very nicely in presence of my husband. So my husband does not beleive me. We do not have a good relation (me and my husband) because of all these. I am thinking I am wasting my precious years.

I think a lot ,sometimes do not get sleep also.I am pregnant at present. I think its better to live separetly. (off course from husband ,there is no way me and my husband live separately from MIL and FIL)

What all of you think . Is there any solution.

Pl. help.

Pl. help.
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2004-07-01
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Anonymous Name: Gannesh
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nandini,

its quite possible since you are newly married your hubby will take some time to adjust with you and since he is with his parents for a longtime its natural he gives more priority to his parents then you.I suggest you to discuss with him and sort out this issues.moreover try to involve your parents where during discussing this topic which might pressure him atleastto hear to your plight than just ignoring you.also explain him how necessary is it to esnure that your under no tension especially since u r into early stages of pregnancy.

all the best n take care
god blesss
gannesh
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