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Waiting to try:i need advice
2007-08-10
Name: rani



hi everyone,i m ttc since june.this time i had certain symptoms of pregnancy.but i got my period after 32 days.this time i really dont want any type of negligence.plzzzzzzzzzz sugesst what all i need to do n do i need to take any other med.my doc has given me folic acid.
one more query.before my last pregnancy*(which was a miscarriage)my doc has given me an injection called corion for conception.shall i take it this time.will it have any side effect.
plzzzzzzzzzzz reply.
how r u sowmee,n sudha nice to see u here on this board.
friends plzzzzz try to reply
love RANI
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2007-08-14
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Anonymous Name: rani
Subject:  hi



dear sowmee
you have always been a great help.i m not able to get an ovulatoin kit here.can u plz tell me how does it work.planning to go to doc.i just need to get a test done.i have not joined that job coz i was shifting to a new place n my hubby was abit scared about hectic travell time.
anyways how r you.n how is the feeling ur hubby must be flying high.
take care
love
rani
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2007-08-16
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Anonymous Name: Sowmee
Subject:  hi



since u got ur period this time aftr 32 days ur ovulation day is most likely to be day 18th from ur periods day.so try from 14th day to 20th day.ok good luck
luv
Sowmee
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2007-08-15
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Anonymous Name: Sowmee
Subject:  it Sowmee again



hi this is only cervical mucus method my dear
(c) Mucus method:(CERVICAL MUCUS)
Another method that is more recent depends on the analysis of the vaginal mucus. A few days before, also called the ?dry? period, there is very little mucus in the vagina. When there is white vaginal discharge in the vagina, it indicates the beginning of the ?wet? period. At the time of ovulation, the mucus becomes clear, sticky and stringy in nature, and can sometimes stretch to over a couple of inches between your two fingers.

Use this method as it doesnt cost anything.this change u can see and when u see this form of stretchy eggwhite like discharge from ur vagina. its the ovulating time also ur most fertile time.i´ m sure u must have noticed it aftr days from ur periods.smartly check the changes from whitish colour to eggwhite very stretchy colur and when u notice it its right time to try.i wud like to know u ask so much how ur earlier pregnancy happened?i hope u dont mind me asking?just curious dear.if i´ m wrong in asking u then i apologise in advance .
Luv
Sowmee
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2007-08-15
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Anonymous Name: rani
Subject:  hi



thanks 4 ur help dear.i ill try the things.
can u plz explain cervical mucus method.what is it
luv rani
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2007-08-15
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Anonymous Name: Sowmee
Subject:  hi again



yes my health is good.my hubby helps me a lot since i have to very careful during first 3 months.in dec i´ ll fly to mumbai with my hubby.one thing i´ d like to share with u i thought to try naturally before buying the kit.so i used the cervical mucus method.it worked for me.so first attempt the other easy methods and see.good luck.happy ttc.m in week 8.wish u all the very best in life.give me good news as early as possible ok!!
Luv
Sowmee
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2007-08-15
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Anonymous Name: Sowmee
Subject:  hello happy independence day!!!



today 15th aug a very special day for us indians na.ok so if u havent joined the job good.
What is the best time to conceive
In order for the woman to get pregnant, one of her eggs needs to combine with a man?s sperm (fertilisation). The woman?s body releases an egg (ovulation) roughly 14 days before her period. She is most likely to conceive during this time. The ovulation period is the time when the woman?s ovary releases an egg (ova) for fertilization.
The ovulation period roughly lasts for 24-48 hours during a cycle. Sperms, on the other hand, live for around 3 to 5 days, and sometimes even longer. Therefore, there is only a very short time each month when you are most likely to conceive. It may take up to a year to get pregnant, especially if your periods are infrequent or irregular, so there is no need to worry if you are not pregnant after a couple of months. You can use this time to enjoy yourself without using contraception.

When does ovulation take place during a cycle
A woman?s menstruation cycle is generally 28 days long, but could last anywhere between 25 to 35 days (or even longer). The cycle begins from the first day of menstruation and ends on the first day of the next menstruation. Roughly 14 days before the beginning of the next period, the woman?s body releases an egg. This egg generally lasts for 24-48 hours, known as the ovulating phase. If the egg is not fertilized (combined with a sperm) during this period, it is discarded by the body during menstruation. For a woman with a 28-day menstruation cycle, the ovulation period is approximately the 14th day of the cycle. For a woman with a 32-day cycle, ovulation will take place on the 18th day of the cycle.

Which are the most fertile days for a woman to conceive, and which are the safe days ?
Dr. A. Sahni
The most fertile period of a woman with a regular 28 day cycle is between day 10 (rarely 9) and day 18. The human ovum is susceptible to fertilization for 24 hours after ovulation. The sperm ejaculated into the vagina can live upto 5 days but can fertilize an ovum only for about 3 days. In a 28-day cycle the unsafe period is from day 7 to 21.the chance of conception is minimum (10/100 women a year) when coitus is avoided during these days. The first day of menses can be marked on a calendar for 6 months. Then by subtracting 18 days from the shortest cycle & 11 days from the longest cycle we get the first and last day of the fertile period, thus coitus should be avoided during this period to avoid conception.

Does ovulation take place every menstrual cycle
No, ovulation does not necessarily take place in every menstrual cycle. Even if your periods are regular, it is possible that you will not ovulate in a particular month. Painful periods generally imply that you had ovulated during that cycle. However, ovulation could take place even if the periods are not painful.
How often should a couple engage in intercourse in order to conceive
Too much sex or too little sex can cause problems in getting pregnant. In general, it is best to refrain from intercourse a few days before the ovulation period, so that the sperm count is high. Some doctors recommend that you have sex every alternate day during the fertile phase. Having sex everyday may reduce the sperm count
Predicting Ovulation
How do I know when I am ovulating
When you are planning a baby, it is important to know whether you are going to be ovulating in that cycle, and if so, when are you ovulating. There are a few ways of determining ovulation:
(a) Ovulation Predictor kits:
Ovulation predictor kits are the most convenient method for predicting ovulation. Although slightly expensive, they offer you that luxury of testing in the privacy of your home. They simply require you to collect a few drops of urine and test them on the stick over a period of about 7-10 days of your likely ovulation time. The day the stick changes color to a shade darker than the previous days, you are likely to ovulate within the next 48 hours. If you have run out of all the sticks in the pack without detecting a color change, you may have to buy another test kit and continue testing. It could mean that either you have not yet ovulated, or that you may not be ovulating in this cycle.
(b) Basal Body Temperature (BBT):
This method requires the woman to keep a chart of her daily temperature readings. The temperature needs to be taken from the woman?s anus first thing in the morning while she is still in bed. It can be recorded using either special test kits available in the market, or a regular thermometer. The basis for this method is that a woman?s basal body temperature drops briefly and then rises half a degree following ovulation, and remains elevated until the start of the next period. Normal BBT is between 96 and 98 degrees, and after ovulation rises to 97 to 98 degrees. A rise in temperature that persists for at least 3 days indicates that ovulation has occurred.
(c) Mucus method:
Another method that is more recent depends on the analysis of the vaginal mucus. A few days before, also called the ?dry? period, there is very little mucus in the vagina. When there is white vaginal discharge in the vagina, it indicates the beginning of the ?wet? period. At the time of ovulation, the mucus becomes clear, sticky and stringy in nature, and can sometimes stretch to over a couple of inches between your two fingers.
(d) Ultrasound Scan:
Another way of determining your ovulation is through an ultrasound scan. An ultrasound scan is also usually used when it is critical for fertilization to take place at the precise time of ovulation, such as for artificial insemination. This method of predicting ovulation, although very reliable, is quite expensive.

please go through other ways of tracking ovulation.hope this helps
Luv
Sowmee
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2007-08-12
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Anonymous Name: Sowmee
Subject:  hello friend



dear i have also posted a reply in ur other discussion board regarding ur other query.then regarding injection pls ask ur doc.as we rnt from medical background.then as Sudha mentioned all u need to be aware is collect maximum information on ovulation time,ur most fertile days for love making,knowing most suitable position to maximise chances,keeping hips elevated under pillow for 20mins aftr lovemaking.there r many tips available if u hit search in google for these things.(tips to conceive soon).i also collected maximum information.depending on whether ur periods r regular or not u can make best use of ovulation kit(use brand CLEAR BLUE) to track ur ovulation day.if u make love just 24hrs before ur exact ovulation day u will maximise ur chances.in my case that happened.i followed the tips i got.so best wishes and happy ttc.be patience and u must enjoy what u r doing.then pray well.i shall give u mantra to pray during this time only if u wish so.i chanted daily(I' M A KERALITE).so goodluck.
luv and prayers for u to conceive soon.since u had got pregnant earlier it will happen soon.be patient.
luv
Sowmee
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2007-08-11
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Anonymous Name: sudha
Subject:  hi



hi rani
why dont u ask ur doc if that injection is needed or not or do u really need any assitence to get preg or not .Because in a board u really cannot disuss nitty gritty and none of us are meds so these things is better to b discussed with ur doc
are u aware of ovulation and things like feritle days and when to make love to maximise conception ,its just these knowlegges u need to have
also u have to give a min of 3 mnths to 6 mntsh to hit the target and dont get impatient and stressful ,be calm and keep on doing the good job of loving and u will get results
blessings
sudha
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