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Hi All,

This is my first post here. I am married for 4 years now and have a 6 month old baby. Right from the day I got married, i did not have a healty sex life. My husband does not seem interested in having sex. We hardly have sex once in a months and sometimes its not even that.

I want to know is this normal? KUNJULAKSHMI replied. Hi Pranavi & R,

Newly married couples normaly do minimum twice in 24 hours till the conception, whenever it is.

I feel your husbands are under heavy stress related to job. However, be patient, keep quite, when you sleep during the day or night with him give feather touch to their sensitive parts which will arouse their sex and defenitely increases the intercourse numbers.

Blaming or fighting is not a remedy WHICH WILL ONLY WORSEN THE PRESNT CONDITION.

Prepare curry using DRUMSTICKS and let them eat PEANUTS, EGG ETC., WHICH ARE NATURAAL SEX BOOSTERS FOR MEN.
Ask him to bring a Blue Film to see how blue films are. DON' T SAY THAT YOU EVER WATCHED THIS FILMS IN YOUR LIFE. Some of my friends used this technic to make their husbands HOT and it worked.

Wish you COUNTLESS INTERCOURSES during the coming days.

Yours loving sister,

KUNJU

r replied. Hi Pranavi,

Even i am facing the same problem i am newly married its a love marriage ,even my hubby doesnot not make love we are married 3 months now can you beleive we had intercourse only three times .Rest all is fine he cares, understands ,inlaws are good only this is a major problem but that frustrates me a lot.

Any comments. Xan Kha replied. Dear Pranavi,

No, once is a month or less than that is really not a normal love making frequency for couple in a 4 year old marriage. This is far more serious that you presentaly think it to be.

You surely need to get talking to your husband and both of you take efforts to improve qulity of love making when you actually do it and also the frequency! Attempt once is a week to begin with.

Are you sure the love-between is not running out of fire? A six month old child can be taxing but you need to work on love-making in spite of it.

Try it at non regular hours, when baby is asleep, on a holiday afternoon/morning/during bath time...