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Name: mmm desai

The problem in todays marriages as i understand is that lot of men still want their wives to drive cars have a good job speak and impress everyone but when it comes to him she should accept whatever he says. As he has been told from childhood that he is a man and he is suppose to make his wife listen to him. If he listens to his wife that means he is a namrd. What does it take for a marriage to work most of the times i think women have problems becoz they dont find their husbands caring its not enough if he does sex regularly once in a while a simple hug may make her forget whole days tiredness. Especially for women in US and the ones with not many friends around pls understand they need ur emotional presence. Well u compare her life before marriage now u r providing her with food,shelter and clothing and if in US with a car but give her some love if u love her it doesnt hurt to tell her it will make a lot of difference. Sometimes she may be furious but believe me if u tell her wholeheartedly that u love her she can do anything for u.
Life after seperation is not great , as they say we may find grass greener on the other side but it helps if a couple can sit and talk before starting take a vow not to loose temper may be ur probs will get solved. Try and tie ur egos and see if ur marriages can work.

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