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Hello everybody!
I have completed 4 yr.s of marriage but stii I don't have any kids.Whenever I talk with my hubby regarding this he says he doesn't want a kid.We both are working in U.S. Backhome I have 3 SILs. One is married(very greedy) & staying with (her parents) my inlaws with her husband & kids.My husband want me to treat them as my own kids, which I do.Those kids are very sweet.But still it makes me unhappy whenever everone (including my MIL) ask me about having a child.I told my hubby regaring this,he says just ignore it.We are going back to India after few monts (forever). I become restless when I think of staying with 3 SILs(taunting everytime) Tell me what should I do? Premanand replied. I think your husband is having some phisical problems. YOU must take him to a good doctor and find what is wrong. I fully joing with Shaan. If you have a child YOU HAVE. No doubt. In your life everybody needs your money but nobody will be with you except children. If he is not ready to meet a doctor BY USING FRIENDLY WAYS AND TALKS, say GOODBYE and try to find a gentleman who is happy to live with you and live with children. DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME. shaan replied. Dear Suchita,
First of all did you people consult any doctor regarding this issue. Find out why your husband ignores the thought of having a kid. Actually a family is complete with a child. The happiness one experiences on a child's arrival is HEIGHTLESS. Eventhough you treat your SIL kids as your own, they are still not yours. \";Apna Apna hota hai\";, with whom you can share , play, moreover you will have the full authority on him/her.If you happen to anytime shout at your SIL kids they will conclude that you are jealous and hence your act. Try to convince your husband by quoting all these example. IMP ADVISE: TRY TO DO A COMPLETE CHECK-UP IN U.S BEFORE LEAVING TO INDIA. IT'S STILL NOT TOO LATE.