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Its just 2 months i am married our is a love marriage. My hubby loves me a lot family life with inlaws is stable the problem is that my hubby doesnot make love to me , you wont believe its just twice in these 2 months we both had an intercourse. its not that he doesnt know to make love infact he is too good coz we had physical relations after we got engaged.

I miss the way he use to love me.I want him to be the same again .But he loves me a lot doesnot leave me alone for a single second ,he cares ,takes me out everything .I also tried to speak to my hubby but he tells me to wait for few days but how long to wait?

And i have one one problem i donot have job satisfaction the place i am working is boring me now trying to find some better job but not find a good one .

Dam frustrated of life .
Need help please just some thing. funny replied. Hey its funny that i went thru the same thing but you know what, i didn' t feel bad or anything, i just went with the flow. The best thing is, I was glad that my hubby gave me time to get adjusted to the new environment and circumstances.

Love making is just not a job that one has to do out of obligation but its another way to express love. And remember- in marriage you may see lot of facets like these - it' s an expression that happens with both of y' ll consent.

If you know that your hubby Loves you, then be sure that he will come back..just be patience and dont get frustrated with him not getting physical. Imp factor in any relationship is communication so open up and talk to him frankly of how and what you feel, make him a friend and discuss things out as two grown up people. You might be physical close b4 marriage 2, but after marriage, even the guy goes thru lot of changes- its a martial responsibility as they say. What you are feeling is right and you need to get a reasonable answer too. So go ahead and talk to him.

When i went thru the same thing, and questioned my hubby, he gave me a reasonable answer and in return i gave him full support and i am glad he gave me time to get comfortable with him.

Good luck and keep posted! Diya replied. As a newly married girl,All u need is love and care.Feel happy that u r getting them both.He must be having some stress or some reason.
Dont appear to be expecting ' it' ,which he might be feeling forced.
Just wait and see , dont count on it. Be cheerful and loving. That makes relation more stronger.
All the best and keep smiling.



asira replied. hey..try for a better job...keep ur self engaged in the things going around ..and dont get dissatisfied with what u have,,..ur hubby is busy in work....try out on the weekends to seduce him...spend good fun time with him...all the best Suman replied. Your life is much more happier and better than many people on this post, so cheer up & be happy.