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ok girls tell me is it wrong to refuse your hubby in bed ? what if u r too tired and what if u r having periods ? Last week we made love, almost everyday and 3 days back we did so 2 times in a day. The next day my periods started and my hubby was upset and started shoiuting on me sudddenly citing some other silly reason. tell me girls what can i do ? i am feeling like he is a sex maniac or something. how much ever i try and satisfy him, he is never happy. what do i do with such a guy ? he is making me hate him becoz of this. do u all face this problem ? do u refuse your hubby in bed, sometimes due to genuine reason and does he react ? tell me please. thanks. Miami replied. Thanks a ton, help and X2. it will be 10 yrs for our marriage this year. yes u r right, maybe some people just have more urge than others, whether man or woman. anyways, let me try and speak to him when he is in a good mood. hope it helps. thanks to u all for making me see it from a different perspective. bye. Riya, sorry to know about your stuff. i guess u could try out some seducing stuff on your hubby to kindle the interest. help replied. hi miami,
first of all its not wrong if u say NO to ur husband in bed for any genunine reason like u r tired ,or not in mood and periods.

second ..No ur husband is not sex maniac some ppl have more urge to make love then others its not only men are like this but women are also like this dont hate him as u wont get anything hating him just start destroying relationship and call for some more tensions.how long uve been married now???

me and my husband make love sometimes twice ..thrice a day sometimes if in nights then my hubby wants in morning then ok...and satuardays...... it will be our 4th year of marriage .

no problem in that

all u need is to talk to him about ur feelings when in good moood such as if u are tired or not in mood then wat pleasure he will get as u wont be able to give ur 100% to him or when in periods its just not healthy to make love as either may get some infection or bed get dirty anything....

hope some of my saying help u.bye

X2 replied. No Miami, it is NOT wrong to refuse your husband in bed. If you are not in the mood, are tired or are having periods, you have a genuine reason to say no.

Love making should be a mutual thing..that you both want to do...if you are not getting any happiness in this, then it is time that you talk to your husband about it and tell him that the way he is dealing with your saying no (because of valid reasons) is making you feel like an object...

And yes there are times I' m very tired in the evenings and I refuse my husband..I tell him, I just want to cuddle up with him...nothing more because I' m very tired...aur periods mein to sawal hi nahi paida hota...he is very understanding about it...touchwood...

take care... riya replied. Miami I think you are the lucky ones that your hubby likes to make love but there are many cases including me the my hubby doesnt like making love at all now tell what to do i sleeep with him on the same bed he care for me and everything else but i think like i am a paying guest at his place to expect love from my own hubby is that wrong am i asking for something more