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Miscarriage and Child Loss:Hello Simba

2006-06-26

Name: Aarti Hi,

I just saw your message to Mina. I have been wondering how things are going with you. I have a special caring for anyone that I have met in the miscarriage and loss board. My best wishes, Aarti

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Hi,

I just saw your message to Mina. I have been wondering how things are going with you. I have a special caring for anyone that I have met in the miscarriage and loss board. My best wishes, Aarti simba replied. Aarti,
Thanks for your kind words of advice. Will get my teeth checked. Its been due for a long time.
There are times when I feel miserable about this wait ... but I AND MY HUSBAND ARE tooo scared to risk anything the next time around. I want to find out everything that may be wrong and treat it if possible.
Well there are times when I feel miserable when I hear about someone getting pregnant and staying pregnant so easily. But then I think to myself whats life if everything is easy and given to u on a bed of roses. God's just making sure I have the best baby when I conceive again. Yes please pray for me. I think I need it.
Good luck for the remainder of ur pregnancy. I know what u mean by taking it one day at a time.
When are you due?
Also nice to know u have a son. I pray and hope u have a peaceful pregnancy and delivery.
Simba
simba replied. Hi Aarti,
I am doing ok. Have been through a lot of RPL (repeated pregnancy loss ) testing in the last 2 months. I have my last test a hysteroscopy on 27th of July. They will be seeing the inside of the uterus in that test. My RE is great ! He is trying to find out anything and everything that could be wrong .....He did find out that i seem to have low blood supply to the uterus. and that could be the reason for my losses. It is fixable using hcG injections after ovualtion and during the first 3 months of the pregnancy. I also have 2 mutations for MTHFR gene which causes folic acid defeciency. So I am taking a lot of folic acid now.
So currently we are yet on a break from TTC till August. i want to be sure the next time we try to get pregnant that we have found out everything we can and have taken precautions or treatments for the same.
So after my last test the hysteroscopy we will know if I have any fibroids or scar tissue etc in my uterus. RE thinks I don't have any of that, but he wants to be 100% sure.
So I am on break now till august. I am focuing on weight loss and work for most parts.
How is ur pregnancy coming along. Good luck.
Simba

2006-06-26

Name: simba
Subject:

Aarti,
Thanks for your kind words of advice. Will get my teeth checked. Its been due for a long time.
There are times when I feel miserable about this wait ... but I AND MY HUSBAND ARE tooo scared to risk anything the next time around. I want to find out everything that may be wrong and treat it if possible.
Well there are times when I feel miserable when I hear about someone getting pregnant and staying pregnant so easily. But then I think to myself whats life if everything is easy and given to u on a bed of roses. God's just making sure I have the best baby when I conceive again. Yes please pray for me. I think I need it.
Good luck for the remainder of ur pregnancy. I know what u mean by taking it one day at a time.
When are you due?
Also nice to know u have a son. I pray and hope u have a peaceful pregnancy and delivery.
Simba

2006-06-26

Name: Aarti
Subject:

People must learn from you

Hi Simba,
"But then I think to myself whats life if everything is easy and given to u on a bed of roses. God's just making sure I have the best baby when I conceive again".

There are people who complain about small things, including pregnant women who complain about minor aches and pains. I wish they can see your words. Adversity makes a person very strong and realise the most important things. Previously I would have immediately said "Life is not fair". But then, we are too small to make such judgements.

You will surely be in my prayers. Do let me know how you are doing...

- Aarti

2006-06-26

Name: simba
Subject:

Hi Aarti,
I am doing ok. Have been through a lot of RPL (repeated pregnancy loss ) testing in the last 2 months. I have my last test a hysteroscopy on 27th of July. They will be seeing the inside of the uterus in that test. My RE is great ! He is trying to find out anything and everything that could be wrong .....He did find out that i seem to have low blood supply to the uterus. and that could be the reason for my losses. It is fixable using hcG injections after ovualtion and during the first 3 months of the pregnancy. I also have 2 mutations for MTHFR gene which causes folic acid defeciency. So I am taking a lot of folic acid now.
So currently we are yet on a break from TTC till August. i want to be sure the next time we try to get pregnant that we have found out everything we can and have taken precautions or treatments for the same.
So after my last test the hysteroscopy we will know if I have any fibroids or scar tissue etc in my uterus. RE thinks I don't have any of that, but he wants to be 100% sure.
So I am on break now till august. I am focuing on weight loss and work for most parts.
How is ur pregnancy coming along. Good luck.
Simba

2006-07-03

Name: mina
Subject:

Hi guys

How are you all?

Aarti how is the baby doing? I was wondering, how far are you along in you pregnancy?

Simba, good that you have a nice doctor whom you can rely upon. That is very important.

The other day I bought a book she suggested. It's 'Many Lives Many Masters' by Brian Weiss, a psychiatrist. Gives you an entire different outlook towards life, and the losses and gains. It talks about immortal souls.

After meeting all you brave girls,I am thinking of trying again. May be I will wait for the next period. That means begining of August we will be at it. My doc has prescribed some folic acid.

It's all about timings... our good times will come.. the miracles are just round the corner... we just have to keep going... our little babies we lost are our angels who are guarding us..

Best of luck to you guys..
write back when you find time.

2006-06-26

Name: Aarti
Subject:

Good luck

Hi Simba,

Very happy to know that you have a competent RE. It is a relief someone is taking care of the medical aspects. I really admire your positive and 'can-do-it' outlook. You are right, working and keeping busy really helps you physically and emotionally.

This is something I tell all ladies who are planning to conceive soon. I am sure you already know it. But here it goes again - get your teeth checked. Get cleaning and cavities done. Sometimes, pregnancy creates wierd issues with the teeth and it is a pain to decide what to do during that time. As you can see, I love giving unwanted and unsolicited advice!

I will pray for good news from you very soon. My pregnancy is going ok so far. I only think of it on a day-to-day basis. I don't dare see the end.

Best wishes, Aarti

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