This site was in my daily routine thru out my pregnancy. Now also this is a place I can say all that I want to about my lost baby. I seems that I can lighten my heart a litte.
You guys are great.

Thankyou so much Tanswap, Aarti and Simba.

I really feel better after hearing from you guys. My close family, all of my friends feel for me, and are really trying to be helpful.
But they do not exactly know what I am going through. (Heaven forbid anthing like this happenning to anyone ever). The various types of emotions I am facing, the tears I am shedding and those I am hiding, they don't know about those. I also don't want to be always miserable in front of my parents. They will be more hurt to see me crying.

It is only my husband and me.
But now after talking to you guys it seems that I have some friends who understand what I am feeling. They know my loss.

I am sorry that you guys share the same feeling. But may be we are into come kind of design of God or destiny. Whatever you call it.

Do write to me when you find time.
Thanks again. Executive officer replied. Garbaratchambigai temple, Thirukarukavur now has a online transaction to receive money for pooja. More information can be obtained from our official website.Thank you Simba replied. Aarti, Mina,
I've been to this temple too. Its the family diety for my in-laws.
Well when I visited the temple I was n't even trying to get pregnant. Now i have promised that diety that I will come there with my baby. Also they give prasad that helps with conception and safe delivery. You have to do 2 poojas. One before conception and one after u get pregnant. After u get pregnant u have to do the poojs and then they give u a oil. Use the oil everyday... gently massage ur belly with it. I plan to do the 2nd pooja when I get pregnant the next time.
I seem to having no problems getting pregnant ... but seem to have problems holding on to the pregnancy.
.....Hopefully the oil will help next time.

Mina, i'm in the US. I have a lot of relatives in bangalore though.
Also its very natural for you to feel this way. i yet feel for my lost babies. I have no living kid yet... and I know the pain you go through when you lose your baby....
Hopefully our time will come soon. It has too. God has never let me down till now... and he is just waiting to give us the healthiest babies in the world!

Simba Aarti replied. ht tp://www . garbaratchambigai. com


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This is how I approached the temple -
The central point is Kumbakonam which I reached by night bus
from Madras. The Kumbakonam area has many, many temples around it.
People visit Kumbakonam just for the temples. We stayed at a lodge
there to take a quick bath. All the lodges have some sort
of private taxi operator who will know all the temples. You can
arrange for a set ruppee amount for the whole ride and back.

This particular temple is located in Thirukarugavur. The male
diety is Thayummanavar (Shiva) and the female is Garbharakshambikai.
There are specific rituals for people who want to conceive and those
who get pregnant and want a health pregnancy. It is a beautiful
and peaceful temple. They gave me a brochure with the picture
of the Goddess. I look at it everyday almost.

I am sure there are many operators from your city who can arrange
a package trip.

Best wishes, Aarti