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Hi Guys-
I am reading your problems from a long long time and i really liked yours genuine suggestions.i hope you guys will help me in solving my problem too.I am married from nearly 6 yrs.and have 2 yr old kid.my husband doesn' t like doing sex any more from last 3 yrs.since i got pregnant. i talked to him about it several times but he is just not ready to listen to me.every time he will say i will do something about it but just doesn' t do anything..will give me all sort of stories that i should do this ..that etc. etc. but just not ready to do anything by himself.whenever i ask for sex he will abuse me and say such a bad names that i just don' t want to recall them...we do sex in 1 or 1 1/2 month.i have stopped asking for it and feel like that i should just leave him and go somewhere. from last couple of yrs. he started abusing from bad names even when i ask him something.i feel so sad and unwanted in my husband' s life.what should i do??with a small baby who likes his daddy so much...i don' t have money problem..no in laws problem but all these things are making my life miserable.i just don' t feel like i have any self esteem in me.just to keep myself away from all these things i go for shopping spend money but that too is not giving happiness anymore .i can' t share this with anybody so i thought i will share with u guys...thanks for reading my story 786 replied. Dear sapna it is not to depress you but waking you to be alert.I had gone through the same & suddenly found out from a well wisher that my hubby was involved in extra marital affair which made him less interested in me.I had a responsibilty of 2 of my own children & 2 of my hubbys big brothers children who was divorced.
Some of we woman cant give our hubby the privacy & attention which some of they think should be given only to them, so they find it in another woman who is free from all interference & her only target is giving him total attention when he go to her & some man get used to extra marital affairs running from their own family responsibilities.
So dear find out silently his daily routine & keep an eye on him & try to give him more & more time.Dont let him know.
Best of Luck ! riya replied. I think you should stop begging towards him so him that even you are not interested in shopping .The best option you have is to masturbate which will keep you happy and will save your family from fights.

These mens are selfish Just dont consider him leave him alone let him do what he wants ,Make him feel that you are going away.