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Is it true that once woman delivers his child(even though when they grow up) husband finds less sexual pleasure with his wife.
Why do man always crave for other womans are they animals.
If so can anyone suggest how to handle out that problem.
Kirti replied. Dear 123,
It is your insecurity which makes you feel that after child birth, a woman becomes less attractive to man. After child birth, a woman has to stay at home, all day look after the baby, and also puts on weight, etc. She also feels a bit depressed at times due to tiredness. But it is wrong to assume that men dont find their wives attractive after child birth. In fact their love grows stronger, more stable and meaningful. The husband is also enjoying his fatherhood and also feels more responsible.If at all he is attracted to other women, it is just attraction. Dont women feel they should look good even at the age of 40+
Similarly men always like to feel young. We all crave to have the free college years back even when we know that we have passed that stage. So dont worry, a married life is like a pickle, it gets tastier as it grows older.Finally, no one can take a wifes place, she is the mother of a mans children. So nobody can surpass her .Have trust in yourself, your husband and in your relation. Good Luck. Priya replied. I found ur Q \" Why do man always crave for other womans ...are they animals ?? \" absolutely funny !!!
Which man are you referring to ?
I know my Dad who loves my Mom ... I admire my FIL taking such good care of my MIL .. he reminds her of every pill she needs to take for her joint pain !
I know my hubby who loves and enjoys my company much more after having our son ! Same stands for many more Men I have known in my life !

Now coming to ur Q of men craving for other woman .. happens !! Child Birth or being less attractive need not be the reason for an EMA ... It could happen for so many reasons and sometimes for no reason at all ...It could happen just for fun or for excitement involved in hiding a friendship from a spouse.

Finally for any EMA to happen there needs to be a woman also who is craving for other man .. unless that man is a Gay :)

So chill and tell ur specific problem is u have any rather than Qs on morality of man or woman !!

Priya Gargi replied. Hey 123,

Its absolutely not true that when a ladies get babies there husbands neglect them or the love reduces, or husband stops caring. As far as sexual pleasure is concerned, that remains same till the time the love and romance remains unaffected, but in some marriages there is truly no love involved and this is were all the issue begins as both or one partner was involved for anything but love and care. In this case the husband and sometimes the wife too do go about for EMAs. And let me confirm you here not only men crave for women but women crave too. After all human beings are all animals (mammals, vertebrates) did you not read in school?
I have been sounding rude to you, because you have put up a question which is pointing a finger at men, while not all men are such, while you tried to portray women to be as pure as fresh milk. Now grow up I being a woman myself I know how we act at times, then why do we say “men do this and men do that” Don’t we do such things too? Why don’t we ask ourselves “Why you fight with your hubby if he will not cuddle or caress you for some time” “Why will you doubt he has an EMA for the same” Do men ever turn back and say the same about there wives?
Think before you post something. And make clear that you talk about yourself and not about people in general.